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Dec 16, 2010, 05:08 AM
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i just started a new relationship and Im a bit scared that if things go bad I will resort to SI, it has been years other then a few minor slips a few months ago. Im afraid of getting back into old habbits, but I know what my triggers are and relationship stress is always a huge trigger for me!
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Dec 16, 2010, 03:47 PM
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Have to talked to your significant other about your triggers perhaps when your starting to feel the need to cut again maybe going to talk about it will decrease your urge to do so. And discuss what at the moment is making you feel this way. N congrats on being S.I. Free
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Dec 17, 2010, 01:08 AM
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No way I have only ben his 'girlfriend' for a few weeks I cpuld never disclose something so personal so early. I don't know what to do!
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Dec 20, 2010, 11:02 AM
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Are you in therapy Abaca? Keep talking here about your fears and triggers in the relationship?
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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Dec 20, 2010, 02:04 PM
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I hope it all goes well for you. I'd love to be in a relationship where I could be completely open about my past and present self injury.
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Dec 21, 2010, 03:22 AM
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No I'm not seeing a T I'm not sure why I want to go to one and I need to I'm just too afraid to make an apt I guess. I know what u mean I wish I could explain to him my SI and BPD and all my other issues!
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#7
Dec 21, 2010, 01:58 PM
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Abaca, therapy is a must to recover fully from SI.......
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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