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Old Feb 24, 2011, 02:39 AM
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Why am i not normal like others.. Why did my cousin sexually and emotionally abused me continuously for so many years.. Why did my best friend abuse me mentally continuously.... Why couldn't i grow up to be a normal individual.. why was i born.. why.. To be a pain for every one around me.. No matter how much i try im a failure.. I just can't be normal.. not for once.. can't go to a psychiatrist Cause i don't get pocket money.. whatever i need is given to me then and there by my parents.. Can't even tell my parents.. Trying to survive but dying inside..

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Old Feb 24, 2011, 04:31 AM
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Please confide in your parents. I'm here if you need to talk x
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Old Feb 24, 2011, 08:54 AM
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Thank u soo much Jess....
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Old Feb 24, 2011, 12:28 PM
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hey nice girl, please try to talk to your parents about this b/c they might be able to help you get some help for how you feel. if you ever need to talk or just want someone to listen i am always here special x
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Old Feb 24, 2011, 01:56 PM
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Working through these things in therapy is very helpful.
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Old Feb 25, 2011, 01:06 AM
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Thanks all.. really.. But i can't confide in them.. my mom knows what i went through.. still she never feels like talking about it.. i can't talk to my dad.. as my mom instructed never to tell him.. im in a mess.
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Old Feb 25, 2011, 04:22 AM
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I understand, I worry about telling my parents and feel like I cant tell them anything because I'm scared of hurting them. But I've realised it's the only way to make it change because parents want to make it better - it's what they're there for. Maybe your mum doesn't talk about it much because she thinks it will help you get past it? I still think you should try your mum one more time x
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Old Feb 28, 2011, 05:17 AM
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No. . She doesn't talk about it cause she thikns i'm the one to blame.. i'm sure. . I hate myself. . Really i do. . Hate being mee. . . .
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Old Feb 28, 2011, 04:03 PM
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No. . She doesn't talk about it cause she thikns i'm the one to blame.. i'm sure. . .
This is an assumption, though?
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Old Mar 01, 2011, 12:18 AM
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Yes it is.. And possibly a right one. . . .
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