[Faith_G]

There are many times I have cut because of my relationship with my therapist. The most recent one is when I called her home for the second time (I found out the number) and she hung up immediaily. Please help me find something to help with theese feelings other than the standard "Coping skills"

i think that you need to look at the coping strategies at the top of this forum and try some of them..

but i also think that you shouldn't have called your therapist at home. she deserves a private life and her own space. everyone needs time off from work while they are at home and she is no different. she is there to support you when she can (ie during her work hours) but there needs to be a boundary in your relationship, most therapists would have helped you come up with some ideas to help you cope after hours, maybe a helpline? if she hasn't then i think that is something that needs to be done. because if that is set up then you can get the support that you need and she can have her privacy. when are you seeing her next?

take care