[mrmag]

well i wanted to start letting people to knew that i cut so i tould my frend that i got 2 dayes ago that i cut and to tell u that was a terable idea telling him because when i had to go home i over heard him talking abought how i was a freak and how that he hates me . i almost turned around and beet the **** out of him. i was so tempted, i knew i could. i was so pissed off at him and now im back to having 0 frends that are not online andd i added 10 new cuts after that.

[mazing]

I'm so sorry to hear that he reacted to negatively and that you didn't get the support you needed from him. Personally, I believe that people who cannot accept you for who you are, especially your struggles, are not deserving to be your friend - you deserve people who will love you and care about you no matter what

I know I'm not there in real life, but if you ever need someone else online to talk to please feel free to contact me. I can't promise to have all the answers but I can always listen and there isn't really anything that anyone could say that would make me turn away.

[mrmag]

thanks cat im glad to know that somewon cairs.

[Sannah]

Info like this that is sensitive and very personal is better left said until after you have built trust with someone. Having a friend for 2 days is too soon to tell.

I'm also thinking that maybe this person wasn't a good choice?

When we have been raised in a dysfunctional family, we haven't really learned how to choose healthy people to be around. This really is a big thing to learn as you are learning how to be healthy and heal.

Learning how to choose healthy people and then learning how to build a healthy relationship with them is something that takes time, attention and study.

[tomboy2011]

if he was a real friend he wouldnt do that he would care for u no matter what mabey he just was shocked and dosnt want to see u hurt if u want to talk to me u can pm

[Lauru]

You are so not a freak, none of us are. He obviously not someone who should be your friend as frankly, he has been a real asshole. Cutting or other self harm is just one way in which we deal with stress. I am sure he deals with stress in maladaptive ways at times as well. Perhaps he smokes, drinks, or eats bad food? or too much food? Whatever it is, he is not perfect and really you deserve so much better.