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Old Jun 29, 2012, 09:28 PM
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and id promised myself. i was going to really try and not s/i with this t. she doesnt know. and im not sure i will tell her. thought if i never do it again. theres nothing to tell. but all i saw today. was how little i matter. how unnecessary i am.
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Old Jun 29, 2012, 09:33 PM
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and id promised myself. i was going to really try and not s/i with this t. she doesnt know. and im not sure i will tell her. thought if i never do it again. theres nothing to tell. but all i saw today. was how little i matter. how unnecessary i am.
Unnecessary? Hmmm, we all have a purpose. One step at a time is better than none.
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Old Jun 30, 2012, 09:31 AM
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but all i saw today. was how little i matter. how unnecessary i am.
What happened?
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Old Jun 30, 2012, 01:40 PM
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just was used for what other people wanted all day. all that mattered to them. was what i could give them. not me. i dont exist. worked 12 hr yesterday and day before. and just got told what i did wrong the whole time. came home and got told off for hours. for nothing i did. and my t sessions are going to be every two weeks. which is such a long time. for right now. its hard to be ok that long. but thats how community ts have to schedule.
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Old Jun 30, 2012, 02:37 PM
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came home and got told off for hours.
Living with a dysfunctional person is not good.

Do you think that your awareness is increasing about being mistreated? Where before it would just be business as usual? Now you know it isn't right? If this is so, this is progress for you.

As for work, you can learn how to deal with people who over step their boundaries and you can learn how to not let people use you.
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Old Jun 30, 2012, 11:40 PM
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yes i think it is. but maybe i cause it. they say i do.
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Old Jul 03, 2012, 09:24 AM
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This is what all abusers say! They are responsible for their own behavior. If what they say is true then this means that you are controlling their behavior. I don't think that they would like to agree with this.
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Old Jul 03, 2012, 09:57 AM
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This is what all abusers say! They are responsible for their own behavior. If what they say is true then this means that you are controlling their behavior. I don't think that they would like to agree with this.

Thank you I needed this, what a way to look at it!!!
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Old Jul 03, 2012, 10:12 AM
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If what they say is true then this means that you are controlling their behavior. I don't think that they would like to agree with this.
suzzie, please think about what Sannah is really saying here. I had to follow the significance for a bit. Have you ever been able to control them? No, of course not. They are lying about that, too.

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