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and id promised myself. i was going to really try and not s/i with this t. she doesnt know. and im not sure i will tell her. thought if i never do it again. theres nothing to tell. but all i saw today. was how little i matter. how unnecessary i am.
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What happened?
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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just was used for what other people wanted all day. all that mattered to them. was what i could give them. not me. i dont exist. worked 12 hr yesterday and day before. and just got told what i did wrong the whole time. came home and got told off for hours. for nothing i did. and my t sessions are going to be every two weeks. which is such a long time. for right now. its hard to be ok that long. but thats how community ts have to schedule.
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Last edited by suzzie; Jun 30, 2012 at 01:53 PM. |
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Living with a dysfunctional person is not good.
Do you think that your awareness is increasing about being mistreated? Where before it would just be business as usual? Now you know it isn't right? If this is so, this is progress for you. As for work, you can learn how to deal with people who over step their boundaries and you can learn how to not let people use you.
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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yes i think it is. but maybe i cause it. they say i do.
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This is what all abusers say! They are responsible for their own behavior. If what they say is true then this means that you are controlling their behavior. I don't think that they would like to agree with this.
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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Thank you I needed this, what a way to look at it!!! ![]() ![]()
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SANNAH:
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