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#1
Sep 16, 2012, 11:03 PM
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i cut up and down my arms last night i told everyone fell in rose bush i cant stop and i dont understand why i do it it just makes me feel better can anyone help me
 
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 Angelornot, TheNationalNobody, WhiteCruelty
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Sep 17, 2012, 03:11 AM
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it makes you feel better because when you injure yourself, your brain "panics" and releases endorphins, which make you happy.
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Sep 17, 2012, 03:11 AM
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ps. endorphins can be addicting
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Sep 17, 2012, 05:54 AM
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I did it again can't stop tonight
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| Angelornot
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#5
Sep 17, 2012, 10:10 AM
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Hi Angel, do you understand what is triggering your SI?
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#6
Sep 17, 2012, 10:23 AM
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Yes it hurts they did hurt
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Sep 17, 2012, 01:52 PM
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Do you have any idea why you wan't to cut? Avoiding emotions? To feel alive or stop feeling numb? To try to feel numb?
Until you figure out what need the cutting is fulfilling, it will be really hard for you to figure out what to do to stop. I know, because I cut sometimes too, and those times when I feel like I can't figure out a reason are the hardest ones to stop myself. |
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Sep 17, 2012, 04:56 PM
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I just know its me inflickting pain and I can block there pain I don't have to think about what happened
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#9
Sep 17, 2012, 08:47 PM
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U hav to tell someone about what happened. It is not ok for him to do that to you. That is why you are cutting. It will be so hard to stop until you do something about the problem.
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Sep 17, 2012, 10:32 PM
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i cant i tried
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Sep 19, 2012, 11:41 AM
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Sep 23, 2012, 07:07 AM
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Sep 24, 2012, 10:15 AM
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Do you need to get away first?
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Sep 24, 2012, 10:58 AM
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Sep 24, 2012, 11:07 AM
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Please be safe.
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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Sep 24, 2012, 11:08 AM
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Sep 24, 2012, 03:49 PM
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Why aren't they coming? Who did u ring?
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Sep 24, 2012, 04:02 PM
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You should not.
You have here friends, you are seeing we cared for you.
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Sep 24, 2012, 07:10 PM
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Xxx I don't know
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| Miswimmy1
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Sep 28, 2012, 07:10 PM
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I can relate to the cutting I do it myself also. I do it to escape the way that I am feeling at the time.
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Oct 07, 2012, 06:37 AM
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#22
Oct 07, 2012, 03:18 PM
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Hello,
My name is Paul, and I am sorry to hear about you having the need to cut. I know how you feel, because I have been there myself. You are internalizing your pain and anger. You would rather hurt yourself by cutting then lash out or hurt the one that has hurt you. Self-mutilation is a coping mechanism to relieve emotional pain or discomfort. It can be classified under the defense mechanism known as dissociative disorder. Dissociative disorder is brought on by psychological trauma you have experienced or are still experiencing. The emotional trauma has been pushed back into your unconscious mind, what Sigmund Freud refereed to as the ego. I believe you should talk to a therapist in order to relive yourself from this emotional trauma. |
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