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Jul 30, 2014 at 06:50 AM
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I don't know why I take pictures because it just triggers me. I didn't realize that my pictures sinc with my tablet so when my H got on it last night he saw them. He was so hurt and wanted me to promise to stop. He said he didn't know it was that bad. He sees me naked though. I guess he was in denial. I'm such an ***hole because I couldn't promise to stop.
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Jul 30, 2014 at 09:13 AM
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my h tried to make me promised too and i could not . i eventually agreed to TRY and stop
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Jul 30, 2014 at 02:05 PM
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Hi detachedangst, well if it was just as simple as promising someone to stop and stopping..............!!! But it isn't is it??!! There's a lot more to it than that!!!
 But this seems to be a bit much about his feelings e.g. him being hurt............right now, so maybe a bit more attention on your feelings right now would help?? Maybe now he's "opened his eye's" to it you could talk to him a bit more about what's going on for you and hopefully get some understanding and support from him?? But you know, you'll get that here too..............so if you want to talk more about it.............. Alison |
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Jul 31, 2014 at 11:37 AM
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This is just me, but to me it's better to not make a promise unless you KNOW you can keep it.
I haven't Self Injured in over 3 years but there is no way I could promise not to ever do it again, I hope that it's something I will never do again but who knows what the future will bring to any of us. __________________ “If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change. As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him. ... We need not wait to see what others do.” Gandhi |
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Aug 05, 2014 at 10:35 PM
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