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Sep 27, 2007 at 12:58 PM
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Sometimes i think i want to get in a violent relationship again. I feel so bad inside. I want to hurt myself but its easier if someone else does it.
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Sep 27, 2007 at 01:47 PM
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i felt the same way at one point in my life. i would get beat so often i felt a void when it wasn't happening. my husband is a really nice guy and would not want to physically hurt me. during our first year of marriage i actually asked him to hit me to make me feel better. he wouldn't instead he just kept telling me how much he loved me and wouldn't leave or hurt me
maybe if you find out the underlying reasons you want to be hurt maybe you could find a solution to stop the desire for injury. i hope this helps at least some. know that you are not alone in that feeling. Linda __________________  |
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Sep 27, 2007 at 02:03 PM
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Sep 27, 2007 at 03:36 PM
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I think I understand that feeling, but if you got in a violent relationship and then you got scared of it or wanted some care instead, you'd probably find it a lot harder to get out of the relationship than in it  Hope you're doing ok... __________________ That's why it's such a serious thing to ask a Centaur to stay for the weekend. A very serious thing indeed. - The Silver Chair |
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