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Crowned "The Good Witch"
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#621
It's been one month and 7 days.
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Member Since Mar 2009
Location: USA
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Legendary Wise Elder
Member Since Jul 2018
Location: CA
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#623
Good Job LiteraryLark!
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#624
A long time but I have wanted to more and more lately.
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Legendary Wise Elder
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#625
Under*Over, urges suck. I hope you can stay strong.
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#627
Great Job Spikes!
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Legendary Wise Elder
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Location: CA
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#628
Eight Days
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Legendary
Member Since Mar 2009
Location: USA
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#629
Well done spikes! 😀
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Legendary
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#630
Nice work SlumberKitty! 😀
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Grand Poohbah
Member Since Feb 2017
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#631
It’s been 8 months today. Somehow.
__________________ Tired of feeling lost, tired of letting go. Tear the whole world down, tear the whole world down. Tired of wasting breath, tired of nothing left. Tear the whole world down, tear the whole world down. Failure. Failure - Breaking Benjamin |
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Legendary
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Location: USA
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#632
Terrific job whisperingskye!
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#633
Great Job whisperingskye!!!! That's super!
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#634
Ugh, um. 1 day.
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Location: USA
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#635
![]() I wonder if people who report a lapse would also consider reporting how long they had been without a lapse. ![]() It is a positive accomplishment to go without SI, and that positive accomplishment is not taken away when there has been a lapse. Thus, I wonder if it might be helpful to keep in mind, and share, our good accomplishments when there has been a recent lapse. We are all far more than our latest misstep. Kit? ![]() |
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Grand Poohbah
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#636
That’s a good suggestion Bill.
![]() Kit, I hope you aren’t too hard on yourself. Lapses happen. Just take one day at a time. I honestly never thought I’d get as far as I have this time around. I still don’t trust I have stopped forever but all I can do is take each day as it comes and hope for the best. Just keep on trying, you will get there one day ![]() __________________ Tired of feeling lost, tired of letting go. Tear the whole world down, tear the whole world down. Tired of wasting breath, tired of nothing left. Tear the whole world down, tear the whole world down. Failure. Failure - Breaking Benjamin |
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Legendary Wise Elder
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#637
Thanks Bill3 and Whisperingskye. I'm being harder on myself than usual because I had to go to the ER to get stitched up and that is unusual for me. I don't usually do that much damage. So I'm embarrassed, depressed, upset, etc. I had gone 2 weeks, which doesn't seem like a lot of time, but it is an amount of time. My depression caught up with me. Thanks for the support and care! HUGS Kit
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Poohbah
Member Since Sep 2017
Location: A Growlery in the UK
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#638
Sorry to hear that, I caved a couple of weeks ago (nearly healed up now) and it was largely due to anxiety feeling intolerable. Although last night I recognised another trigger for me which I am ashamed of and my shame makes me feel like hurting myself too.
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Poohbah
Member Since Feb 2016
Location: At Home
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#639
9 days, I forget how long it had been before, at least since before Christmas. It helps feeling like I have to talk to my boyfriend about it now, but I kept this time from him for a while. I've been wanting to again, but so far I haven't.
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Legendary
Member Since Mar 2009
Location: USA
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#640
Congratulations PsychNitrous in that long period without SI and good job in involving your boyfriend!
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