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Trig Dec 01, 2022 at 12:08 PM
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I feel like hurting myself because of all the haters. Some people imagine things about me which are lies. And they hate me. It still hurts. Maybe if I bleed enough they might get off my back Probably not, it would make them happy They ENJOY watching my pain.

Why are some people like this? I guess I'm ''stupid'' since I do not understand.

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Default Dec 01, 2022 at 12:16 PM
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Dear Fuzzy, please don't hurt yourself. Do your best to ignore the haters. Any hate directed towards you is their ugliness, and THEIR problem. I know it's hard, but do your best to let it slide off your back. Focus on the love you get from people especially here on the forums where we would hate to see you harm yourself.

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Default Dec 01, 2022 at 12:21 PM
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Dear Fuzzy, please don't hurt yourself. Do your best to ignore the haters. Any hate directed towards you is their ugliness, and THEIR problem. I know it's hard, but do your best to let it slide off your back. Focus on the love you get from people especially here on the forums where we would hate to see you harm yourself.

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I don't understand how people can be so cruel either @Fuzzybear ...

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Please be safe & gentle with yourself.

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I don't understand how people can be so cruel either @Fuzzybear ...

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Please be safe & gentle with yourself.

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Fuzzy, you have lots of friends here. Please don't hurt yourself. Those folks don't matter.
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@Fuzzybear —

We only recently met/crossed paths here on MSF, but you have been kind and welcoming to me. And insightful and helpful, too. Based on what I read from others here, they also see these characteristics in you

I say these things to try to help at least balance the hate messages you get. I know the good stuff is a lot quieter in our heads than the loud ugly stuff, so my hope is maybe just for the minute it takes to read this, the volume is amped up on the good, and you are able to take a breath free of hate and full of love.

[ I also hear you on the “wish to just not wake up” thoughts/feelings. Sending strength your way. ]

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Default Dec 05, 2022 at 01:34 PM
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I just thought of something. How about trying to do a big exhale and imagine all the hate from others leaving you, doing a big inhale and thinking about taking love in, and then exhaling and imagine it being the love you give to the world?

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Fuzzy is loved lots and lots and lots and lots and lots and lots on this forum
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Default Jan 09, 2023 at 11:05 AM
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Fuzzy, people can be so cruel. I can't understand how they can be that way to you, since you're so kind and sweet. We all love you. Please don't ever forget that.

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