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Old Dec 01, 2022, 12:08 PM
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I feel like hurting myself because of all the haters. Some people imagine things about me which are lies. And they hate me. It still hurts. Maybe if I bleed enough they might get off my back Probably not, it would make them happy They ENJOY watching my pain.

Why are some people like this? I guess I'm ''stupid'' since I do not understand.

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Old Dec 01, 2022, 12:16 PM
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Dear Fuzzy, please don't hurt yourself. Do your best to ignore the haters. Any hate directed towards you is their ugliness, and THEIR problem. I know it's hard, but do your best to let it slide off your back. Focus on the love you get from people especially here on the forums where we would hate to see you harm yourself.

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Old Dec 01, 2022, 12:21 PM
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Dear Fuzzy, please don't hurt yourself. Do your best to ignore the haters. Any hate directed towards you is their ugliness, and THEIR problem. I know it's hard, but do your best to let it slide off your back. Focus on the love you get from people especially here on the forums where we would hate to see you harm yourself.

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Old Dec 01, 2022, 12:22 PM
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I don't understand how people can be so cruel either @Fuzzybear ...

self harm and haters

Please be safe & gentle with yourself.

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Old Dec 01, 2022, 12:30 PM
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I don't understand how people can be so cruel either @Fuzzybear ...

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Please be safe & gentle with yourself.

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Old Dec 04, 2022, 07:58 AM
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Fuzzy, you have lots of friends here. Please don't hurt yourself. Those folks don't matter.
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Old Dec 05, 2022, 04:39 AM
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@Fuzzybear —

We only recently met/crossed paths here on MSF, but you have been kind and welcoming to me. And insightful and helpful, too. Based on what I read from others here, they also see these characteristics in you

I say these things to try to help at least balance the hate messages you get. I know the good stuff is a lot quieter in our heads than the loud ugly stuff, so my hope is maybe just for the minute it takes to read this, the volume is amped up on the good, and you are able to take a breath free of hate and full of love.

[ I also hear you on the “wish to just not wake up” thoughts/feelings. Sending strength your way. ]

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Old Dec 05, 2022, 01:34 PM
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I just thought of something. How about trying to do a big exhale and imagine all the hate from others leaving you, doing a big inhale and thinking about taking love in, and then exhaling and imagine it being the love you give to the world?
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Old Dec 06, 2022, 05:25 AM
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Fuzzy is loved lots and lots and lots and lots and lots and lots on this forum
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Old Jan 09, 2023, 11:05 AM
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Fuzzy, people can be so cruel. I can't understand how they can be that way to you, since you're so kind and sweet. We all love you. Please don't ever forget that.
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Old Jan 09, 2023, 11:10 AM
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We all love the bestest kindest Fuzzy in the whole of the universes
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