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Member Since May 2023
Location: Southampton, England
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#1
Hi everyone,
I am currently 3 weeks free from self harm, it is really hard for me at the moment as, I am currently trying my best not to harm myself. I am trying everything I possibly can not to harm myself, but I am really struggling to not do it. It’s so hard. ![]() Last edited by FooZe; Jul 02, 2024 at 01:28 AM.. Reason: added trigger icon |
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Poohbah
Member Since Aug 2022
Location: The House
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A therapist told me self-harm is a form of control, when you feel like things are out-of-control.
With that in mind, could you make a list of things you can control and use that in place of self-harm? Thoughts? |
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New Member
Member Since May 2023
Location: Southampton, England
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#3
I don’t really know what I can control, it’s very difficult for me to know that.
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Little Miss Potty Mouth
Member Since Apr 2021
Location: Georgia (USA)
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#4
Something I've found helpful for me is to keep some colorful markers on hand, and when the urge becomes too much to resist, I'll write or draw on myself instead of scratching, picking or cutting.
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Monster on the Hill
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Location: by the river
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I don't know if you're still struggling as much as you were earlier, but when I avoid those urges it's by keeping myself incredibly busy. Cleaning sprees, learning more about whatever I'm really interested in at the time, exercising, grocery shopping if it's needed (or maybe get my favorite snack they sometimes have at the dollar store), cooking, looking at maps (obsession of mine), talking to people about their interests, whatever I can think of.
When I get to a "level of crisis down," I can use more solution-focused skills as opposed to doing stuff to do anything but self-harm. These are more the deep-breathing, grounding skills, mindfullness based exercises (yoga, tai-chi, etc), doing things to bring you into the present and focus on the idea of "I am here, I am safe, I am in control of my actions." __________________ [Insert thought-provoking and comedic quote here] |
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