[SelfHarmLove]

My stupid *** of a boyfriend is putting me down saying ill never get a job because of my scars, like i cant wear a freaking long sleeve shirt, nd hes saying i gotta cook him dinner every night if we get married, hes kinda sexist so this is the "cause im a woman thing" now he says i cant handle any stress he said "u cant really handle anything more then sleeping" those were his exact words, idk about the rest of the world but that is just like a super hurtful thing, he knows im a self harmer, he knows how i am yet hes saying this %#@&#!, and of course now i want to hurt myself really bad. Sorry for ranting needed to get this out and stuff.

[onlymedid]

(((((((((((selfharmlove)))))))))))))
I don't think he is a very supportive person in your life. I think that the way he is treating you now, may get worse in the long run. He sounds like he is going to be/is an abuser.

Please be safe and don't let what HE says cause you to self harm. He is sooooo not worth it!

BJ

[x_BabyG_x]

(((((selfharmlove))))

Oh dear, does he know this is upsetting you? does he understand why you self harm?

You go through enough already hun, you shouldnt have to put up with this, he needs to respect your feelings and be supportive!

Hope everything gets better for you

babyg xXx

[Typo]

(((selfharmlove)))

He doesn't sound very nice or supportive of you. You do not need to take such hurtful words from your boyfriend or anyone for that matter. Stand up to him and tell him that you don't appreciate him saying those things and that he could try and be kinder.
Best Wishes and Hugs
Silver

[SelfHarmLove]

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x_BabyG_x said:
(((((selfharmlove))))

Oh dear, does he know this is upsetting you? does he understand why you self harm?

You go through enough already hun, you shouldnt have to put up with this, he needs to respect your feelings and be supportive!

Hope everything gets better for you

babyg xXx

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Ya he knows, and the funny thing is that hes a self harmer too, hes been doing it for half as long as me and its been on and off for him, but he should still understand, yet he doesnt, its also been so easy for him to stop hes gone over a month maybe two without it, but theres been no mention of him even wanting to its like it was never really a problem for him, so i guess he just doesnt understand maybe someday he will.