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Jul 09, 2008, 09:51 AM
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Why is it when we are being abused, our first instinct is to hurt ourselves as if we deserve it?
Sick and tired and so sad.     .gif)
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Jul 09, 2008, 10:10 AM
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((((((((Fuzzy)))))))) it's because the abusers taught us it was OUR fault instead of THEIRS, the arseholes.
 But it really was theirs.You deserve better. We all do.  
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Jul 09, 2008, 10:30 AM
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 (((((Fuzzybear))))) I am always here if you want to talk my friend. Sending lots of hugs and warm safe thoughts. Love Silver |
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Jul 09, 2008, 11:05 AM
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(((((fuzzy))))))))))))))))))))))))))
You do not deserve to be abused You never deserve to be hurt You are a good person and you matter to me................. 
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Jul 09, 2008, 12:14 PM
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(((((((Fuzzybear)))))))
stay safe
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Jul 09, 2008, 01:10 PM
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(((((((((((Fuzzy)))))))))))))
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Jul 09, 2008, 10:00 PM
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(((Fuzzybear)))
I know one of the reasons that I hurt myself is because then I feel like no one else can, Like I have control over what happens to me... I'm here though for you fuzzy...
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Jul 10, 2008, 08:47 AM
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Thank you all, love, Fuzzy
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#9
Jul 10, 2008, 06:15 PM
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fuzzy- are u being abused now? =(
do you have any resources? i too wish the blame could go on those who really deserve it; those who trained us that the only thing we are good for is to be hurt. worried- hope you're safe. kiya
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Jul 11, 2008, 05:43 PM
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Fuzzy, (hug)
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Jul 12, 2008, 12:03 AM
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#12
Jul 13, 2008, 12:26 PM
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((((((((fuzzy))))))))
It doesnt make sense does it?? i think most of us need to realise this... our first instinct maybe to hurt ourselves, but thats not the answer... it maybe the easiest way out of the pain caused by others, so we just take the easy route. Or maybe it is because we are more ashamed of the pain caused by others then we are of the pain caused by ourselves, so we turn it around so it is us who are causing our own pain I know how ur feeling hun, please dont think too negatively, because if you really really think hard enough, anything can be made more positive. take care babyg xXx
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Jul 13, 2008, 01:13 PM
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it's all kind of mixed up isn't it... we hurt ourselves to stop hurting... or i do anyway... what a mess ... take gentle care... lyn
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#14
Jul 15, 2008, 05:53 PM
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(((FUZZY))). I hope things get better for you soon. Best wishes. Soidhonia
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