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Dec 19, 2004, 02:42 AM
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I am sorry everyone. It seems that I am too much of an %#@&#! to stay away. Seems I need this place and your support at the moment. Sorry for being such a %#@&#!. I have been cutting worse than ever. And it is all my fault
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Dec 19, 2004, 02:43 AM
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((((((((((Fuzzy))))))))))
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Dec 19, 2004, 03:05 AM
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Don't apologize, fuzzy! We love you, and we want you to stay.
*big hugs* I'm sorry you're struggling.
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Dec 19, 2004, 03:22 AM
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please take care of the after effects of your SI. proper wound care is important.
I wish you felt better dear bear. gentle hugs for a pained (((((((fuzzy))))))) <font color="purple">the ever imperfect --zh</font> |
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Dec 19, 2004, 03:55 AM
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I wish you didn't feel so unhappy ((((((Fuzzy))))))... I'm glad you didn't leave us, ('cause I'm selfish and I look for you every day when I come online). XOXO, Jill
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Dec 19, 2004, 11:20 AM
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<font color="brown"> ((((((FUZZYBEAR}}}}}}}}
</font> It is NOT all your fault. There were adults in your life responsible for teaching proper coping methods, and responsible for keeping you safe so you didn't have to cope with biggies! It's THEIR fault.
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Dec 19, 2004, 11:46 AM
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My sweet friend, this time of year doesn't help either. It's a time that is very hard on many people even those without depression or other illnesses.
Do not feel guilty and please do not go away. Hang on sweety! Love you! nightdream |
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#8
Dec 19, 2004, 01:26 PM
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*hugs* we are here to support you when you need us. I'm sorry you're so down at the moment, but remember it isn't your fault. Please come to us when you need the support.
 That's why this forum exists. I'd feel bad if I was the only person who ever needed help. *hugs again* I hope things start going better soon.
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#9
Dec 19, 2004, 01:34 PM
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Why would you be a %#@#! for not staying away? This is going on the premise that there is something wrong with you because you need a place like this. Everyone needs support sometimes. We need it from a mental health forum. Some need it from AA or NA. Some need it from their minister. It is better to get it in those ways then to get it from a bottle or drugs. In fact I believe the fact that we come here to get support shows just how adult and well adjusted we are. WE KNOW WE NEED HELP. Where are other people whoe just wander through life refusing to admit that help is needed. They continue to hurt themselves and other people without any effort to stop. We want to change this. Coming here is a good thing and helps our beauty to shine.
Now, we need to hear your story about why your are cutting. You see, the cutting isn't the problem. It is the "why" behind it that is the problem. Maybe if you can talk about that it will help. If you can't talk about it right now, just know that you are in our thoughts and remember you don't have to appologize to us for coming here and getting the hugs you (and we) need. {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Fuzzybear}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} With love and light, Carrie |
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#10
Dec 19, 2004, 02:02 PM
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*hugs* Hun, I'm soo glad you realize that you need the support!!! You are Not bad for saying you were going to stay away and then not go away! We're HAPPY you decided to stay please you are very very welcome. Please take care of yourself ok? *hugs* again!
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Dec 19, 2004, 03:58 PM
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((((((fuzzy)))))
I'm glad you stayed..you're so helpful all the time, you need this place and we want you here too. Please take care, you're in my thoughts. Claire x
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#12
Dec 19, 2004, 04:27 PM
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Dearest Bear,
You are not a %#@&#!. You are one of the kindest, gentlest people I have ever met. You might not say a lot about yourself, and that's ok as long as you are getting the support that you need by coming here. We would all be sad if you stayed away, so I am very glad that you decided not to. I'm not buying that it's your fault either. I might start my own thread and explain why my cutting is all my own fault though. What do you think of that? Will you let me get away with saying that unchallenged? I can certainly understand feeling that way, and yes, you are the one who has the power to stop if you choose to (and we love you either way, whether you choose to stop or not), but taking on all the blame yourself just hurts you more and isn't true. You haven't told us much of your background, but we know if you hurt yourself that there are some difficult things that have happened to you. You have been traumitized in some way, and you coped with it as well as you could. But now you can take charge of your life and not let anyone hurt our favorite blonde bear anymore. And it's ok to need help and support. Please stay here as much as you want to, for any reason at all. I wish that you could also find the kind of 3D support that would be helpful for you. You deserve that too. Love, Rapunzel
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Dec 20, 2004, 07:11 AM
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((((((((((((((((((((Everyone))))))))))))))))))))
With much love, Fuzzy
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Dec 24, 2004, 08:37 PM
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{{{{{{{{{{{{{{[ hugs her fuzzy wuzzy teddy bear }}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
I am so sorry, i did not know you were having such a hard time.. I am sorry I have not been here for you, like I always said the drgaon would be.. I have been trying to heal, thyself from my surgery, and your warm wishesh have helped me ever so much.. I want you to know that. I also want you to remember something you said to me once . We all have our hard times, right now it sounds like that is what you are having. Chin up girl, it can get better and it will. Trust in yourself, and you will survive, it may not all be roses and candycanes. but hey, not all can live in candy land 
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Dec 25, 2004, 01:03 PM
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((((((((((((((((((((Trish))))))))))))))))))))
Love, Fuzzy
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Dec 25, 2004, 01:16 PM
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<font color="purple">(((((( FUZZY WUZZY)))))
Take care hon , Thinking of you and hoping you will see brighter days very soon !! Take care Sweetie Hugz~ Tryin~ Beth </font>
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Dec 25, 2004, 03:31 PM
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Thanks hon ((((((((((((((((Tryin))))))))))))))))
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Dec 25, 2004, 05:06 PM
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{{{{{{{{{Fuzzy}}}}}}}}}}}}}
Merry Christmas!
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Dec 25, 2004, 08:35 PM
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Merry Christmas ((((((((((((((((((Rap))))))))))))))))))
Love, Fuzzy
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Dec 26, 2004, 08:06 PM
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*hugs* fuzzy. i stayed away for 6 months, maybe more, and still came crawling back for support. sorry to here your having a rough time, this time of year is hard on us all. take care of yourself wont ya.
marko
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Dec 27, 2004, 12:19 AM
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you are very welcome..
I want you to know I am here for you no matter what
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Dec 27, 2004, 04:17 PM
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Thanks Marko and Trish,
Bearhugs! Take care, Fuzzy
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