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Default Nov 23, 2021 at 05:06 AM
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How I wish that were true!

Now officially retired but having been made redundant six years ago, finding another job was a minefield. Despite it being against the law to age discriminate, it's alive and kicking here in the UK.

When asked why I hadn't put age or dob on job application, was advised it was needed to satisfy Government reporting. What an excuse!

Well done to anyone over a certain age that's managed to secure employment. You are very lucky!
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I agree that there is discrimination but there are ways to get around it.

Here in California, they are very careful not to discriminate I think so I have not had any issues with getting hired for many jobs since I became old. I have had a lot of jobs in the last 10 years.

I sold hot tubs with a guy in his 60s, when I was 57, worked for a local park service job when I was 60 did personal care attendant job, worked for trader Joe's when I was 58, worked for Wholefoods as a shopper during the lockdown helping get food out at age 61 and there were lots of people even older than me pushing carts around the store

I worked at Best Buy for a bit at 59, went back to doing massage for a while but it was too hard on my body, worked for an artisanal chocolate shop at 55, did a bunch of freelance writing over the last few years.
I am teaching Pilates again. I was surprised when I started teaching at Club Pilates at how many people over 50 who are teaching fitness classes, especially Pilates because many people over 50 are taking Pilates for rehab. but I have been teaching all ages and teaching hardcore advanced classes too. so that has been nice. But I am in Silicon Valley where Pilates teachers are in high demand because people have money to take classes.
Had a bunch of private cleaning clients for bit for house cleaning and they didn't even ask how old I was. Found an Air BNB job that paid me a stipend been during Covid lockdown and let me live in one of the apartments. Now I am doing work trade in exchange for rent.

I just got my certification to teach English as a foreign language and got hired for a few hours a week already as an in-person tutor and that should get me the experience I need to get an online position soon. I recommend Bridge Education Group for that.

And now I am enrolled in an online school called Skillcrush that caters to women, elders, and other marginalized people, to learn to code so I can raise my income up to a normal level and work remotely. I feel like now that remote work is getting to be the norm it doesn't matter as much how old you are because people cannot see you as much. when I was freelancing I often didn't even see the people on zoom. I only communicated by email and they didn't even know how old I was.

My point is look around for training for a skill you can do online, tutoring, proofreading, graphic design, web development. motion graphics, I suggest school of motion for that. there is also skillshare, etc. so many ways to get started and after 6 months to a year you have a skill. writers den for freelance writing. etc. just look around.
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This year I am considered a senior citizen. Lol, I still have people ask me if I'm in my 30s or 40s. Well, I liked the previous message. I am teaching online and am learning how to code. I encourage people to use free code camp since it is free. There is no teacher but there are helpful hints on there. I think skillcrush is expensive. If you are thinking about paying for anything for coding, I highly recommend trying to do it yourself first then look around for some courses or a coding bootcamp if you think it is necessary. At our age, no company is going to hire us but maybe we can do freelancing as web developers etc. I agree that if you look around some places may hire you at our age. I applied to other teaching companies and was given interviews but turned them down since they are not working remotely for now. I am freelancing as a teacher as well. I think as long as you are capable and willing to work, there are jobs out there. I think age is just a number. If you think you are capable of working and are willing to work, then please don't give up and keep searching for jobs that are suitable.
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Thanks for your advice. I hope more and more companies are giving older people a chance.
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I’ve been hanging back to see if a post of a less rosy view of opportunities for seniors appears. Nope….Alas, here I go with my take.older people and work

Being able and willing isn’t enough. And the types of jobs available are often too physically demanding or with a volatile schedule, like fast food or retail. Slim pickings these days, now with Covid. Some people can’t stand or walk for hours. Or work till midnight then show up at 8am the next morning.

Employers are demanding and pay is low with little or no benefits. I’m sure senior friendly employers exist but it’s like finding a needle in a haystack.

The US is a youth oriented culture or youth worshiping. How many times do we hear how we can look younger, dress younger, feel younger? Cover that gray? There’s denial about aging in this culture.

Not everyone is tech savvy. Or has the necessary equipment and high speed internet to work online. It’s a Catch 22, you can’t do it without the tech, and can’t afford it without a job. You also need a quiet home, not a crappy apartment with thin walls.

And you can’t afford to move and don’t know where to go anyway that’s affordable. Upscale buildings are going up along with the number of tents.

And here just being unemployed is a barrier, you get stigmatized.

It also depends on where you live.

There’s programs for unemployed seniors here but the waiting list is long. And because of Covid as usual, there’s no participating companies. These would be in person or on site jobs, where they are willing to train. So few places train like in the old days. They want you to have the experience already.

When the weather is mild enough there’s tents outside the senior center of all places. I’ve seen people who look near my age on the streets. I’m sure not all homeless people are mentally ill or addicts.

They may be down on their luck, with no friends or family to help. And our safety nets were inadequate even before Covid. It’s hard to qualify for help and even harder to apply.

Social security may be too measly to live off of, though it’s not meant to be the sole source of income. So seniors have to work but can’t do just any kind of work. And it’s not being lazy, it’s being realistic about one’s limitations even if not officially “disabled”.

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I think you're right, alas.
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I think you're right, alas.
Me too.. Ha ha But seriously seniors are also told not to list 30 or 40 years of work experience cause it will give away your age.

I read on another site about a senior woman waiting for an interview. Someone buzzed the receptionist, on speaker phone, and asked where the applicant was. The person said nobody is in the lobby except “some old lady”. I’m sure this is more common than one wants to believe.

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Well! Can we call her an "ageist"?
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Well! Can we call her an "ageist"?
Yes, among other things. And it was a man saying he just sees some old lady. And stupid enough to use speaker phone like he was sure she can’t be the candidate.

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Hey, great to see your new location.

I agree it would be good not to say "I worked at blah-blah-blah company for 40 years" or some such. And also don't put down all your jobs over the years on a resume, just the relevant ones to the job you're seeking.

Case in point, I 'm trying to get a book published. I don't want the publisher to know it's my first attempt at publishing a book and I'm 67. So, I'm not going to say I've worked as a newspaper columnist for as long as I have!
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No matter how old I get I ain't goin' back to work!

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I work at home, writing books, cleaning house, etc. !

Here’s What the US Minimum Wage Was the Year You Were Born
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Hey, great to see your new location.

I agree it would be good not to say "I worked at blah-blah-blah company for 40 years" or some such. And also don't put down all your jobs over the years on a resume, just the relevant ones to the job you're seeking.

Case in point, I 'm trying to get a book published. I don't want the publisher to know it's my first attempt at publishing a book and I'm 67. So, I'm not going to say I've worked as a newspaper columnist for as long as I have!
Yeah.. I need to escape. Love being a Time Lady.older people and workI know you remember the Time Lady from calling time.older people and work I miss that.

Is your book science fiction?older people and work

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No matter how old I get I ain't goin' back to work!

I wish I could do that but alas, financially it’s not an option.older people and work

I remember when working hard got you ahead and training was provided by the company. Benefits too. Now they expect you to already have the experience or skills. And you better not have periods of unemployment longer than a couple of months. American culture is so unforgiving.older people and work

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(Owl, I've written two books and am now working on my third. They're all murder mysteries. I'd like to write a science-fiction book someday and have an idea for one.)

I heard on NPR the other day that companies don't like to hire older people, because they usually have to pay them more. There's a history of companies offering big incentive packages for senior citizens or even workers in their fifties to retire earlier, so the company can hire younger people at lower wages. I'm talking about big companies, not something like a fast food place,
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(Owl, I've written two books and am now working on my third. They're all murder mysteries. I'd like to write a science-fiction book someday and have an idea for one.)

I heard on NPR the other day that companies don't like to hire older people, because they usually have to pay them more. There's a history of companies offering big incentive packages for senior citizens or even workers in their fifties to retire earlier, so the company can hire younger people at lower wages. I'm talking about big companies, not something like a fast food place,

I like NPR and used to listen to it until they kept talking about Covid again. And all the inequality in this country which Covid exacerbated.older people and work

Yeah I heard about older workers cost more money. That’s a myth that’s been around forever. They think older workers won’t settle for less money than they got before or they are afraid the workers will jump ship as soon as something better comes along.

Well younger people do it too! Who doesn’t want greener pastures? But depending on where you are in life, you might gladly work for minimum wage and stick around awhile too.

Unfortunately it’s not up to the employee as to how long one stays. The employer has the upper hand and if they want to show you the door they will.

Employers are so unrealistic and demanding. They want you to be the Energizer Bunny while knowing you can be let go at anytime. And for little pay and few, if any,benefits…..They don’t care if they’re putting you on the street. It’s about profit,though even non-profits will treat people that way.

Labor laws are weak, employees have little protection. I’ve been thinking of how so much stuff in our system favors the employer or landlords. 30 days to vacate an apartment? Or a 30 day notice for a rent increase? WTF?older people and work

So…what’s your idea of a science fiction book? Invasion of the Body Snatches?older people and work

What are your mysteries about? Murder?older people and work

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So, it is a harsh world out there! I understand, I am planning on becoming a peer counselor when I return home to the USA. I will find out if there is job discrimination or not. I decide to do this because there is free training and support in my state. I don't expect to earn much but enough to pay for community college courses. I would like to do medical interpreting for the deaf eventually. I think this is not an easy path either but I love languages so decided to look into it. So, yes, it is hard to find jobs if you need to be independent and do everything yourself. I did that and, boy oh boy, it was hard!! I am going home to my family. I need to take care of my mother while working and taking some courses. I don't want to be stranded here in another country all alone anymore.
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bp, your plans sound good and I say, "Go for it!"

(Owl. my books are murder mysteries. In one, the main character is a college professor who gets involved in trying to figure out the deaths of two of her students. The second and third are about a church secretary who solves murders. The sci-fi will be one where the main character wakes up in heaven. They are all Christian stories.)
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Trav, I wanted to allude to what you said earlier about big companies offering incentives for older worker to retire. In the 90’s I worked in the benefits department at a big company. They closed a bunch of subsidiaries and offered early retirement to those 55 and up.

I was too young to wonder why they are encouraged to retire and not keep working. NOW I get it. Even younger got offers of lump sums and most of them chose to cash it out taking a tax hit, rather than saving it for retirement.

I’m hindsight I think they needed it to live off of. Unemployment doesn’t cover enough.

I’m reading a collection of short stories by Shirley Jackson. One of them is called My Life with RH Macy. It’s about a woman who worked for Macy’s for two days and quit. She was just one of thousands in that company and knew she wouldn’t be missed. They identified employees by number, not name. They probably never knew her face or voice.

The story is more relevant than ever. It was about being another faceless number among many others.

Sadly not all states have free training and if so, one must qualify and that can be tricky.

Thankfully here on Gallifrey we don’t worry about such things.older people and work We try not to meddle in human affairs especially in politics.older people and work

There’s a Suburu commercial I despise. They claim to treat both employees and customers with “love and respect”. Right older people and work….I’d only believe it if I see it. Or experience it !!And since I hate the commercial I don’t even want to buy anything from them. They expect us to believe a big company has a soul and will treat people with respect? Especially employees?

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