[lovefew-fearnone]

i have not had sex in over three months and it seems to be getting to me. masturbating is getting old and doesn't seem to be helping me anymore i am willing to try anything. any ideas?

[imokyrok]

Originally Posted by enditnow92

i have not had sex in over three months and it seems to be getting to me. masturbating is getting old and doesn't seem to be helping me anymore i am willing to try anything. any ideas?

maybe it's not sex you need but company or a connection?? get out and join a church a vounteer group, meet people.....no, not in bars the i net or clubs....you need a positive and worthwhile 'support group' of friends and people, don't isolate yourself with your 'habit'....that will just keep you focused on you and what you aren't getting. so, focus on something else and give of yourself (which, at the end of the day, feels great) and i bet you'll find a relationship or at the very least some good friends.....hope this helped.

[pstarsus]

Agreed. There must be a physical component to sex that cannot be replaced by social events. However, it seems reasonable to suppose that in addition to this physical issue there remains another emotional level that can be replaced by social events.

[papapa99]

There are also practices of Tantra or taoist sexuality in which you take that energy which is generated by your sexuality and transform it and integrate it into your core
Mantak chia is one of the writers of tao