[47GT]

I would like to talk to someone who has been though this type of thing before.

Did you ever conquer this fetish and get rid of it?

I don't know why I enjoyed masterbaiting while I wached my wife having sex with another man. We did it for 6 years. I watched her repeatedly with 4 separate men. But now she's done with it and I can't stop thinking about it.

[healingme4me]

I haven't had this experience, personally. Does seem, a difficult thought process, to overcome, as it sounds like a lifestyle change, is occurring, in your marriage. Hopefully, someone else here, can guide you through the steps of such a change.

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[rrrayguns]

Originally Posted by 47GT

I would like to talk to someone who has been though this type of thing before.

Did you ever conquer this fetish and get rid of it?

I don't know why I enjoyed masterbaiting while I wached my wife having sex with another man. We did it for 6 years. I watched her repeatedly with 4 separate men. But now she's done with it and I can't stop thinking about it.

Hey, I can relate. 7 years ago my gf and I had a pretty rough relationship. While talking dirty over IM she said her fantasy was to be with me and another man at the same time. This turned me on more than I ever had been before. We never actually did it and we broke up soon after. Since then, I've been obsessed with MMF sex and porn. It's my main fetish and feels like I can barely get off without that fantasy. Currently I am trying to stop porn/masturbation/sex altogether. Wish I could tell you how to get rid of this obsession.

[47GT]

Originally Posted by rrrayguns

It's my main fetish and feels like I can barely get off without that fantasy. Currently I am trying to stop porn/masturbation/sex altogetherer. Wish I could tell you how to get rid of this obsession.

True i feel the same way. Its hard to stop. Thanks for sharin.

rrrayguns PM me please

[rrrayguns]

Originally Posted by 47GT

True i feel the same way. Its hard to stop. Thanks for sharin.

rrrayguns PM me please

thanks 47GT, I am going to PM you

Sorry you're going through this..the only thing that works for me is to stay busy. Like, so busy I don't have time to think. Wish I had better advice

[47GT]

Its ok, i think your right. Just have to keep my mind off it.
That works. But doesn't change how I feel about it. I still desire it. I guess because it was so erotic and there was never any drama. never any contentious feelings. No betrayal just pleasure. She wasn't the first there were several before her.

[len51]

Originally Posted by 47GT

I would like to talk to someone who has been though this type of thing before.

Did you ever conquer this fetish and get rid of it?

I don't know why I enjoyed masterbaiting while I wached my wife having sex with another man. We did it for 6 years. I watched her repeatedly with 4 separate men. But now she's done with it and I can't stop thinking about it.

My wife and I had a steady girlfriend that we shared sexually for almost 40 years. Our normal sex was FFM as our gf had her own room in our home. When we moved away, we found that we did not know how to enjoy sex as a twosome anymore. We had become addicted to threesomes. My wife feels that sex is incomplete unless she is in bed with me and a female that she loves; no strangers allowed.

Like you I cannot stop thinking about it and when it ended, went into a depression that is being treated. My wife had problems too. It was the darkest time of our marriage that really never had problems before. What saved us is Chastity play. With advancing age and erectile problems and my wife's less than enthusiastic feeling for just MF sex, it fit out life very well. My wife controls our sex life. For her is mostly her vibrator while I play with her. For me it is being kept in a constant state of arousal with plenty of teasing. I am released 3-4 times a year for an erection and ruined orgasm.

I would never have guessed I would end up like this but it is such a change from the previous 40 years that I enjoy it and no longer am depressed because my wife longs for a women to join us in bed. We are looking for a woman to join us in bed but my wife does not want me to find a stranger. Finding a friend who is bisexual is not going to happen where we now live though.

I do not know if I would call any threesome an addiction. More like a habituation to a particular form of sex.