[Guy_No1]

I want a ddlg relationship. I'm a very loving man, and I am very dominant, I need a lot of sexual stimulation and intimacy, I'm hypersexual so I've always been like this.
I love the lifestyle, do you think it's a good or bad thing

[Skeezyks]

Hello Guy_No1: I do not know what a ddlg relationship is. Perhaps others do not either which might explain why you have not received replies to your post?

[Guy_No1]

It's a daddy dom, little girl relationship

[Erebos]

I have a couple of questions, before I decide how to answer. What do you know about the lifestyle? have you been involved in a D/s relationship before? Do you understand the responsibility you would be taking on in this paticular style of relationship?

[rwwff]

Originally Posted by Guy_No1

I love the lifestyle, do you think it's a good or bad thing

As long as we're talking about consenting adults, I wouldn't worry about the good or bad as far as in general type.

But can you sustain that type of dominant energy over the long term? Remember guys fall off in sexual energy as they age, and girls... don't. (and for many subs the energy required increases with time) You'd really be taking on a very large commitment.

If you can do it though, and hold up your end of the relationship power dynamic, there's no reason you and a match couldn't have a perfectly happy life.

[amandalouise]

Originally Posted by Guy_No1

It's a daddy dom, little girl relationship

Im a bit confused. in this post you are saying you want to be a daddy dom with a little girl relationship

but yet in this thread here http://forums.psychcentral.com/sexua...eir-women.html
you say (from your post)I love it when a girl wears sexy lingerie, it shows how feminine she is, and that she wants to be sexy for me, I love that they're showing me how womanly and how much they want to please me

heres my confusion

dom relationships means you are in control you tell women what to do when to do it and how, daddy dom relationship means you have an adult woman pretending to be your daughter, you do what daddys do ... you tell them what to do, you discipline (spank/ punish) them like you would a little girl when they do something you dont like and you act out adult forcing sex with children,

but the other thread where you talk about lingerie you are saying you enjoy a girl showing you how womanly they are (this is the opposite of enjoying acting out sex with children)

so Im trying to figure out what you mean is your addiction where you crave and need to have a woman calling you daddy, you buying your woman gifts and treats like a daddy does, disciplining\ spanking/ punishing your woman for every mistake, arguement, not following your orders...

or do you want a woman who of her own choice dresses up like a woman not a daughter because she wants to please you, and show you how she as a woman looks and loves you?

see what I mean by Im confused. if you are addicted to the daddy dom/ little girl relationship then having a woman dress up like a woman isnt what daddy doms/ little girl people enjoy and want.

one thing that confuses many people in my location is that some people feel that if they like sex it must be because they are addicted to it. but liking sex is actually pretty normal. what makes it an addiction is when you must have it the same way every time and you crave that non stop, you need it its more than just wanting it. like someone who is addicted to smoking if they dont get that cigarette they experience withdraw anxiety/ panic and many more very uncomfortable got to have it like now feelings.

my suggestion is contact a treatment provider in your location. they will be able to help you to understand what your sexual preference is and if you have an addiction or if you are like millions of other people in the world who instead of being addicted to something enjoy many things including having sex in different ways.

[Ophelia_]

A dd/lg relationship is not "bad". If that is your kink, indulge. Just make sure you understand the relationship and you are sharp on communication and negotiation. Always stay safe, sane, and consentual (especially if your relationship involves dark ddlg)