Husband Belly Expansion Fetish

bunnyhabit · Apr 21, 2019 at 11:46 PM

your hubby trying to force you to be unattractive may be more jealousy driven than a fetish. do other men compliment you in front of your husband? you should stand tall and avoid this abuse. once you fattening up he will push for more liberties to change your self image and beliefs. this is a test of your self esteem and values. I am sure you would be uncomfortable asking him to lose weight for your enjoyment

Earthmama · Apr 22, 2019 at 08:21 AM

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Originally Posted by bunnyhabit

your hubby trying to force you to be unattractive may be more jealousy driven than a fetish. do other men compliment you in front of your husband? you should stand tall and avoid this abuse. once you fattening up he will push for more liberties to change your self image and beliefs. this is a test of your self esteem and values. I am sure you would be uncomfortable asking him to lose weight for your enjoyment

Thank you for your reply. I have wondered that myself. Is he making me fat so that I can appear less attractive to other men? I’m not sure this is the case because I know he is seriously turned on by thick women. It may go ever deeper, however, that the attraction is imbedded in the control aspect of making someone gain weight. I wonder if it is me being chubby that turns him on or if it is the act of making me gain weight that turns him on.

sarahsweets · Jan 23, 2020 at 04:22 AM

hey @bunnyhabit

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Originally Posted by bunnyhabit

your hubby trying to force you to be unattractive may be more jealousy driven than a fetish. do other men compliment you in front of your husband? you should stand tall and avoid this abuse. once you fattening up he will push for more liberties to change your self image and beliefs. this is a test of your self esteem and values. I am sure you would be uncomfortable asking him to lose weight for your enjoyment

If the husband wants her to gain weight because he is turned on by that, how is he wanting her to be unattractive?

bizi · Jan 23, 2020 at 11:13 PM

It is controlling....
sigh
bizi

poshgirl · Jun 04, 2020 at 05:13 AM

Interesting! This subject has so many angles. Agree with comments about boundaries between acceptable fantasies/fetish and controlling behaviour.

Many years ago, I worked with a woman who had a pregnancy fetish. Something that's more common than I realised. At home she'd frequently dress up, simulating various stages of pregnancy. Admitted the next stage was labour and birth, her state of mind even prompting pains. Wanted to take it further and go outside, but feared getting caught by people she knew. Being single and childless probably fed this need.

Porn site accessibility has provided the opportunity to publicise these activities. As the saying goes, what we do behind our front door.....

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