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Location: Indianapolis
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Location: Sunny East Coast Florida!
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a 12 step program of recovery, any one of them but particularly AA, might help you. just use sexual addiction in place of alcohol. these 12 step programs are FREE and there are many ppl who attend that have other addictions. you would find support there to learn how to change your behaviors into constructive living. hope this helps and u'll give it a go.
12 steps for everyone: http://onpurposeplace.com/12steps.html __________________ Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle. The world you desired can be won. It exists, it is real, it is possible, it is yours..~Ayn Rand |
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Member Since Jun 2011
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My obsession comes from thinking about sex all of the time and it is a re-occuring fantasy, which as I get older becomes stranger and more upsetting. I am married with grown-up kids. I have never been unfaithful to my wife and never will be. But the fantasise seem to take a life of their own. I write poems about them, make up stories, fantasis when I should be working, reading, paying attention to important matters. Even now as I unburden myself I panic slightly about them.
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Again, it would be great to know who this is, as I would like to meet this therapist.
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Member Since Jul 2012
Location: schroon lake ny
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i am a 42 year old man my wife of three years is32 and she is bi i hooked up with her becuse she was the most beautiful woman i have ever seen i also found her by looking on my space under bi f she likes porn and likes girls she gave me the gratist gift eney one could give she trusted me and we had a few girlfriends we went to a few swinger partys we both loved it we had a few hear her peforms like a porn star with girls and has me joine in no man could ask for more but she is good to do this once in a while and i took her for granit i want it all the time i am pushing her away i talk about it to much dont get me rong i dont wont this so i can have sex with other girls unles she wants me to i love her to much and dont want to lose her so i need help
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Member Since Jan 2012
Location: Georgia
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If my husband doesn't aknowledge his problem and seek help immediately, our marriage will be over. I don't even know for sure that its not over already.
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Member Since Oct 2012
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Maybe you can help me deceide where to go witht his... This is the second time my 18 year old son (after moving out of my house) has stated that he is having sexual dreams about me, and he is aroused by it and uses it later as material to self pleasure. I have even received photos from him... I try to tell him that it is due to the seperation from me. I tell him that maybe he should talk to someone, he says he is fine that I am attractive and he gets turned on by older women. Please help me help this situation. thanks
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Member Since Nov 2012
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I have a foot fedtish.I rember kissing my aunts feet when I was young.Now that am older am wanting her feet .I think she would not mind me doing this again.I dont know what to tell her.she knows about me wanting to kiss them.
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Location: South India
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Member Since Feb 2014
Location: spain
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I need help, please i just hate myself after masturbating,,
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Member Since Jul 2014
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I think people really underestimate just how strong this addiction can be, it causes me more stress than my drinking. It literally makes me crazy when I dont act out. I get anxious and have panic attack symptoms. It really sucks to put it mildly
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Member Since Oct 2014
Location: Birmingham UK
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Location: LT
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Hi, I'm new here and have a few concerns about ED, depression, surviving abuse (rape, twice) but then I don't know what's happening to me in terms of sex. I am married to a man who is not into sexual experiments and maybe that's one of the reasons I'm having an affair with my ex. He is also married and the reason for us breaking up some 13 years ago was my infidelity with other men abroad. Now we both are married and unsatisfied with our sex life. He wants to try a lot with me such as fisting, spanking, threesome etc etc and there were times when I agreed but then hated myself so badly and my eating disorder started to spiral out of control. So I left him. Then he suddenly emails me and I want to have sex with him but the next day I refuse. Right now I have not seen him for two years on my own initiative but the temptation is still there and I don't know how to get rid of it. I want sex with him but then all these bad feelings start arising inside me and I cancel everything and delete him from my life - until next time. What's wrong with me? maybe I should exercise more or smth
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Member Since Jan 2015
Location: Los Angeles
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#38
I realized I was a sex addict after I realized I was sober from alcohol.
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Member Since Apr 2014
Location: Walkersville
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Wow! what an enlightening post. my own addiction doesn't sound so bad, but that i use it much similar to yours...i turn to sex for comfort...not actually having it but anything related. I want to find the better coping mechanisms. This latest incident caused me to lose my job. It wasn't overt sex, but rather looking for a cheap thrill to wake me up or maybe just get that conquest.
one great coping mechanism is humor. my ex-girlfriend always tries to make people laugh. i think its her narcissistic competitive side - she wants people to like her - but, nonetheless it is a novel idea to me and could have great benefits. another coping mechanisms muddled in my ex is my running. I ran my butt off the last time she left me. i entered a half-marathon on very short notice. she told me that was one time she was most proud of me. it just so happens the guy she is talking to is a great runner. i think she may have taken away running as a coping tool for me this time. i also know my ex is an abuser coming from an abused home. it was easy for her to abuse me and this lead to my own poor maladaptive behaviors...i cracked in a spooky, creepy sexual way. i want to firmly remove this coping style and replace it with unflappable self esteem and get that winning smile back. Quote:
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Member Since Apr 2015
Location: Caneyville
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hey everyone in jserkid and I'm having problems with my addiction. I've been really good so far but idk for how much longer. I haven't master bated in several days even with my extensive browsing or porn through the web and rentals. My girlfriend whom I have been with for several years knows my problem of craving sex and release. So she limits me. But here recently she hasn't had any form of physical contact with me for several weeks, and I don't how much longer I can stand like this. I know who I am I don't want to cheat but if there's not any form contact I'm afraid I will.
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