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Ruuf
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Default May 30, 2009 at 07:50 AM
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Hi
I'll start off by giving a little background info.
Im 17, been straight all my life, never been attracted towards men, loved the ladies. I've always had a strong foot fetish for as long as I can remember, it doesn't bother me, i love it but after a while of looking into that I looked into other things and liked the fantasy of being humiliated by a mistress and stuff like that.
Recently I came across some forced bi stuff, and I got quite depressed after because i liked it, and i just wanna know if thats right for a straight guy? as in to like it. I mean in person i've never been attracted to a dude and neither over the net but I found the fantasy of forced bi kinky and a turn on and have been depressed on and off for about a week. It may also have something to do when earlier that day, before I looked at it, i smoked some pretty strong skunk (Pot), which I don't normally ever do, and so I think that could have made me blow the whole liking it bit out of proportion, and continued on in that mindset for the whole week.
So I guess the main thing I want help with is just to know that if its okay to be straight and like this?, because its mainly the whole idea of being forced to do something and submissive that turns me on, but im sure in practice I would be repulsed and would kick the crap out of anyone who tried it on me lol

Help or anything would be greatly appreciated.
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Default Jun 02, 2009 at 07:56 AM
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Smoking weed can heighten your sexual desire and lower your normal inhibitions. But, if you have looked at stuff like this while not stoned and it still turned you on, then it may just be a fantasy that you have.

You don't have to be attracted to a male in order to fantasize about that sort of activity with one...

It sounds like you were dominated when you were younger and unconsciously it turned you on or pleasured you in some manner and it's manifesting now into adulthood.

A lot of people like to be dominated in a relationship or in a sexual situation so unless you act on it recklessly, it's nothing to worry about but possibly something to explore when you're in a committed relationship later.

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