[fallenangel337]

For those of you who don't know, I had an unwanted sexual experience a couple of weeks back...

Since then, things have been pretty much normal sexually...sort of. I still have sexual thoughts, of course, but now, I sort of feel guilty about having them, even though I'm aware that it's completely normal. I've NEVER felt guilty about sexual thoughts previous to this experience...what can I do to get myself right?

[Rhapsody]

Originally Posted by fallenangel337

what can I do to get myself right?

Find your self a good T and go through the motions of uncovering the WHY's and WHAT's that are behind the reason for your quilt....... ((( hugs )))

[Dorje]

Sounds like you may want to work some things out with your therapist and the person you had the experience with.

I'd like to know what possessed the person you had the experience with to press you when you didn't want it. If you enjoyed the experience then you can process that with the therapist your mate or both.

[fallenangel337]

Originally Posted by Dorje

Sounds like you may want to work some things out with your therapist and the person you had the experience with.

I'd like to know what possessed the person you had the experience with to press you when you didn't want it. If you enjoyed the experience then you can process that with the therapist your mate or both.

*nods* I definitely have some stuff to work out with T.

The guy, on the other hand...there is nothing to work out with him. He was a former friend who betrayed my trust, and forced me into a situation that I did not want to take part in. So no...there's nothing to work out with him. He can burn in hell, for all I care.

Sorry if that came off as a bit bit bi***y. I wasn't directing that at you, I'm just pissed off about the situation. I don't want you to feel like I was attacking you.

[jerrymichele]

This sounds like he took advantage of you. (maybe rape) You do need to talk to someone about this. I'm so sorry.