24-7 D/s power-exchange relationships

Hello, it's been a while since I've been on here. I am in my early 20's and there are two men that want me to be their 24-7 submissive and I am just torn between the two. One of them, who is 44, he and I dated for 3 months earlier this year and it didn't work because I was unfaithful. Now he wants me back. The other guy, who is 47, lives in California. He wants me to come live with him where I would be a perminant sex slave. This does sound appealing but is this healthy for my psychological wellbeing? I love them both and want both but I don't know. Maybe I should just forget them both and move on, but I'm addicted.

Both of these men are unhealthy in their own ways but I feel a calling to be in a relationship with at least one of them. Like all I am good for is sex. I'm starting to feel like this. Like I'm just been put on this earth to please men. I'm starting to interalize this.

I guess I don't know what I want... maybe I need to do some serious soul searching.

While you may sexually enjoy being the submissive in a relationship I feel that you are having torn feeling at taking part in this kind of sexual activity in your life right now due to the lack of your own mental well being, therefore, I suggest that you back away from both men and see how you are doing in six months... therapy during this time would be beneficial to both you and your future relationships.

Yeah. do some soul searching....I don`t believe that all you are good for is sex.

What happene when one of those men who sugested to live with will get bored with their sex toy ? Where will you go? Do you know that men dont like routine...? I was told tihs by many other people. i am in my early twenties myself.

Are you sure that they are trustworthy? I just wouldnt trust anyone who is interested me as a sex slave...that wouldnt be a proper answer to my feelings..if i loves someone.

I guess you are already feeling this is not healthy for you...and i assume that..werent you waiting,,,that the replys/advice/whatever you would get here on the forum will be particualry against being a sex slave...?

I am sure you are capable of MUCH more than that!

I have to agree...I don't think that all you are good for is being a sex slave, either, and perhaps some soul searching is in order.

However, I sorta get the feeling that you are going to go with your desires, anyway, which, imo, is fine.....so long as no true harm comes to you as a result, (but, that would be hard to predict in situations such as those based solely on sex).

There will come a time when you will have exhausted your desire to be the submissive toy to these men, and you will begin to feel the need to seek better for yourself.
With that in mind, it is my advise to you that between now and that time, (the duration of being the sex toy and satisfying your own sexual promiscuity), you may want to (at least) prepare yourself for that enevitable time for change by creating and securing a financial resource for yourself, (savings account in which you deposit into as often as possible), for the time when you WILL be facing the break from your present sexual environment.

Make your choices wisely of who you will devote yourself to, with the notion that you, too, deserve rewards for your actions. Do not simply settle to be ONLY the slave, but view yourself as their "treasure of pleasure"..so to speak....meaning that you deserve reimbursements for your devotions, (and in this case, financial security for your future well being).

It is my strong belief that, "to each, their own"..so long as no harm is present or results for anyone in any form.

I wish you the best in your journey. And remember, the important thing is your welfare (whether it be the short or long term)....YOU come first.

Be careful.... Enjoy.

Shangrala