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Default Aug 03, 2009 at 08:13 PM
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Hi, everyone. I've been out of relationship for 4 years now. Finally, after all this time I decided to join some online dating sites and have been starting to date again. Only thing is that I am so scared and nervous, not only that I'm afraid of making the same mistakes again. Granted I'm in therapy now and have changed a lot - still I worry that instead of being the abused I will be the abuser or get in another abusive relationship. Oh, and by the way I'm dating women now not men. And no I'm not straight I've always been bisexual. I just feel more comfortable being sexual relationships with women. Anyway, the bottom line is that I want another love relationship and but I feel nervous and scared about the prospect.
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Default Aug 03, 2009 at 08:16 PM
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it can be hard. i am attracted to people that are going to eventually hurt me and have also been in an abusive relationship. Keep talking to your therapist. Trust and believe in yourself!!!
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