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mervinjules
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Cool Jul 29, 2009 at 11:31 AM
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my wife an i been together pretty long i found out a year an a half she has deppresion prior to that i was dealing with her lashing out before she was diagnose she now takes celexa an trazazone we hv 2 kids i love my wife unconditionally i was carrying alot of pain with not knowing where to for help so she felt i wasnt giving her attention so she went an cheat on me neglected me an kids would never come home if she did it would be in the morn sometimes the kids would be there by themselves so one day i notice she was slipping so i told she needs to slow down we need to patcj our releationship together she blew me off while i was always home with kids cooking cleaning paying bills doing it all she never contribute she end up getting pregnant the kid wasn't mines an i had to pay for the abortion she is now telling me i 09 she is Bi-sex what can i do she doesn;t see a therapist any suggestion?
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Default Aug 16, 2009 at 10:44 PM
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My suggestion would be to get a therapist/counselor for yourself, even if your wife is the one with the problems. Living with a mentally ill and/or unstable person is hard, and professional support helps. (I say these things as someone who is mentally ill and/or unstable myself. ) You might get some insight on helping your wife. Someone who specializes in marriage or relationship counseling could be especially helpful for starters.
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