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Old Oct 06, 2009, 12:41 AM
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after abuse from my father, and a very abusive girlfriend i'm finding myself more aroused by guys. i don't know if it's normal or not. but for right now it's not bothering me.

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Old Oct 06, 2009, 09:15 PM
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after abuse from my father, and a very abusive girlfriend i'm finding myself more aroused by guys. i don't know if it's normal or not. but for right now it's not bothering me.
There is no place that it is said that you must figure this all out RIGHT NOW!

Take time to take care of yourself. Get therapy as that may help. Learn about yourself and accept yourself. The rest will come later.
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Old Oct 08, 2009, 12:06 AM
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Hi there,

I think it is something some of us deal with.......I knew from a youngish age that I was also attracted to females(I am female). I guess if someone were to ask me if I was bisexual I would say yes. I have been in love with a woman before.

However, for me it is more about who I fall in love with, than gender. You do not need to question nor fear. I am now engaged to a man that I have been with for 6 years......and he is my best friend.

If you are not worried, then that is excellent. Do not worry about attraction for others of the same gender. You will find in time whether it is right for you. Just be safe, do not compromise yourself and spend your mental energy in healing from the past.

Take good care, babe......

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Old Oct 08, 2009, 01:15 AM
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after abuse from my father, and a very abusive girlfriend i'm finding myself more aroused by guys. i don't know if it's normal or not. but for right now it's not bothering me.
I gather you're a guy. No, this is not what society considers normal, but it's awfully common. The relationship should involve something more, no matter who the partners are. billieJ

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Old Oct 08, 2009, 09:52 PM
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thanks to everyone for the coments esp. michah

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Thanks for this!
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Old Oct 10, 2009, 08:17 AM
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hi bi placebo, i'm a female bi sexual. I have sex with both sexes and am aroused by both sexes. Took me a while to figure out that i was. I think that a therapist could help you figure out your sexual feelings or you could just sexually experiment with people in a safe sex kind of way. I'v had safe sex in a threesome a few times to figure out my likes and dislikes sexually.
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