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Oct 27, 2009 at 06:19 PM
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Hi, Everyone i need some advice on what could possibly be wrong with me.
Ive recently had problems getting an erection and keeping one. Now, ive never had this problem before with any of my other partners. I'm very healthy mentally and physically, i don't know what possibly could be wrong. I'm very attracted to her its just it seems the very point at which intercourse is a possibility my erection is no more. |
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Oct 28, 2009 at 01:18 PM
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1st Question:
Are you on any mental health medicines? - they tend to effects one ability to perform sexually. 2nd Question: Have you been under any stress at home or at work - stress is the number one killer of sexual pleasure. The mind is your biggest sex organ, if it is stressed then so is your body. 3rd Question: Have you talked to your doctor about this issue? - you could have a medical problem that is causing the sexual issue. 4th Question: How old are you? - some men over forty experience these problems. |
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Oct 28, 2009 at 02:32 PM
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1st Answer
I'm on no medication at all 2nd Answer I have had some stress but not anything thats a big things, Just everyday frustrations. Not enough i believe to affect my sexual performances 3rd Answer No, Ive scheduled an appointment though. But i don't think i have an medical issue, as far as i know i'm perfectly healthy 4th Answer I'm 18 years old, I doubt its that seeing that im pretty young lol. I really don't know what could be wrong with me >.<! |
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Oct 28, 2009 at 11:00 PM
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Being a young fertile 18 year old male does indeed make this situation more of a mystery.... but hang in there and follow through with your doctor apt and lets see what the blood works shows.
Have you ever tried using a c*ck ring to help you maintain your erection? There are several good ones on the market. Another Question: Any sexual abuse in your past? - or history of being shamed for being sexual. |
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Oct 29, 2009 at 07:50 PM
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Maybe your sexual desires have changed? Try watching some porn till you find something that gets it going downstairs. Then, if needed return to that point in your mind to assist before or during intercourse.
I tried a pump w/ this same problem no doubt improved a lot after routine exersizes every other day following instuctions. But the main thing that works is think of some crazy ***** to get it going then it's easy as the ***** is right there. Hope this helps, it you try a pump, get one w/ a guage. |
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Oct 30, 2009 at 09:21 AM
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I guess thats a possibility that they may have changed but idk.
Ive never tried any of those things to help with an erection i guess after my doc app ill look into them. The Porn Thing, Ive tried and i can get an erection.. But it still doesn't stay >.< Ive never been sexually abused. Ive only had good experiences when it came to sex, so i guess that cant really be it. |
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Oct 30, 2009 at 11:37 AM
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You say you were fine before with other partners. Are you feeling anxiety performance with her. Do you have anxiety problems at all? Can you maintain an erection through oral sex and when you masturbate?
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Nov 01, 2009 at 12:26 AM
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Yes, i had no problems what so ever with other partners. It could be anxiety but i never had that problem before. I guess it is something i should look into though.
I haven't masturbated, But during oral sex, i couldn't maintain an erection. |
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Nov 16, 2009 at 11:46 PM
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hmm... sounds like you are too nervous or something... or trying too hard...
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