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Oct 29, 2009 at 03:01 PM
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i'm a married woman with children and i have a WONDERFUL husband but.....i think about women ALL the time, i look up sexy photos of women on the internet, i watch lesbian porn videos and it makes me so hot and it's actually helped with my sex life with my husband. But when he leaves to go anywhere i whip out all my gadgets and pleasure myself either to internet or tv where i can watch sexy women. I also love to pleasure myself in the mirror, and when i'm with my husband i sometimes get myself into positions where i can fantasize that i'm with a woman and i'm really giving it to her. Is this weird? I love him so much, i just have this new found interest in women and i love watching hard core woman on woman action. I would never cheat, is this fantasy world okay?
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Grand Magnate
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Oct 29, 2009 at 04:31 PM
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 Have you thought about sharing your fantasies with your husband? I'm sure he has some of his own. IMHO. Lenny __________________ I have only one conclusion,,and that is things change too quickly for me to draw them.... Sobriety date...Halloween 1989. I was plucked from hell...and treat this gift as if it is the only one... |
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Wise Elder
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Oct 29, 2009 at 05:35 PM
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 YOU are NORMAL!!IMO, as long as it does not take the place of your husband you are fine and as a female I would like to say that you are not alone in your sexual practice or fantasies..... some women just don't talk about this kind of stuff out in the open. |
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Location: Minnesota
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Oct 29, 2009 at 06:45 PM
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sometimes its hard to determine what your sexual preference. Its hard to say if your gay, do you feel like more to a friend with your or an actual partner. I know that its hard to determine but from my expereicene its perfectly natuarl to have fantasy
__________________ Sometimes I am high and sometimes I am low. Everyone around me but I am always alone. Hour by hour and week by week, I deal with myself and I never feel complete. I want to be normal; I want to be sane, No matter what I do, I always feel the pain. “Stop the mania and fight back, It’s all in your head” I wish I could do it; I would rather go to bed. Sometimes I am high and sometimes I am low, I wish they could see me, so I won’t be alone.  By Pam |
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Oct 29, 2009 at 07:44 PM
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Coming from a guy's point of view, TELL HIM!!!
Don't surprize him as everyone might end up in the morge, but hint it around to him and if the signs show positive TELLHIM!!! It is only one of the top ten goals of almost all men to get a 3 way going, but careful, although I might think about it often I would have to kill everyone involved after the fact if it ever happened but that's my personal insecurity issues I guess. |
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Pirate Goddess
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Oct 30, 2009 at 06:32 AM
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I'll tell you what everyone already has...you're normal! Nothing wrong with fantasy, and if you think your husband would enjoy the fantasies too, share with him. Lots of men love to hear the details, and sometimes help them along, LOL!
__________________ Maven If I had a dollar for every time I got distracted, I wish I had some ice cream. Equal Rights Are Not Special Rights  |
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Grand Member
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Oct 31, 2009 at 02:51 PM
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Your husband deserves to know the REAL you. Chances are, he'll be okay with it. And if he is very much NOT okay with it, then you have a pretty big problem and you need to do some serious thinking about it all.
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Nov 01, 2009 at 03:58 AM
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Yeah... tell him the truth. Explore with your husband and find out what's really going on.
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