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Nov 06, 2009 at 08:26 PM
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Ok, how weird can this be?
I find tongue kissing disgusting!!!!! I had 3 boyfriends in my life, and I would turn my head when they wanted to kiss me. Then one day I said, please let's just kiss with no tongue. Mouth closed. None of them liked the idea...they thought I thought they were nasty...but I didnt mean it that way. Today Im confused about my sexuality, because I feel butterflies in my stomach when I see pretty women...and its been a couple of years now... I try to picture myself kissing a woman..and I find that YUCKY too.... I guess Im in deep trouble! |
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Nov 07, 2009 at 12:51 PM
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I wouldn't worry so much about whom you are attracted - but I would try to work on why you find kissing so yucky.
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Poohbah
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Nov 07, 2009 at 10:34 PM
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I just read both of your threads. I don't know how old you are, but it seems to me that your not ready. I do know some people who don't like the tongue kissing. Some people just aren't in to it. Sex is suppost to be something that isn't to be pressured. It usually just happens.
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Nov 16, 2009 at 11:43 PM
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hmmmm..... interesting...
I find kissing=yucky too. I have questions to all males here... When you kiss your girl or woman, do you always use your tongue all the time???? I really want to know. |
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Dec 08, 2009 at 02:06 AM
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I haven't used my tongue in a long time for kissing. The last time my girl friend slipped me her tongue was right after she ate a chocolate pudding cup and she was taken back by my reaction. I wish everyone practiced good tongue hygiene especially my girlfriend. I got her a tooth brush that has a tongue cleaner on the other side.
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Jan 04, 2010 at 02:49 PM
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Actually, before my Girlfriend and I broke up, I found we both liked intimate kissing, but without excessive tongue usage.
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Jan 11, 2010 at 04:11 PM
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In my experience, kissing is an activity that some people are really into. Others, not so much.
The like or dislike is partly due to experience, imo. It takes a little while to develop skills and/or confidence in ability. My ex-hub wasn't a kisser. He expressed his love in other ways. Small kisses were okay ~ but, no tongue. He didn't feel comfortable with it. My new bf loves kissing as much as I do, which is wonderful! Finding a person who enjoys what you enjoy is a real treat. I wouldn't worry about sexuality due to your avoidance of tongue kissing boys. If you don't feel comfortable with it, don't do it. Plain and simple...really! Best wishes to you! 
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Jan 12, 2010 at 11:00 PM
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i agree. i've had 3 bf in my too. but for some reason, i started to really get disgusted by tongue kissing with my most recent boyfriend. now it totally skeeves me out. i think it's just because he is a really bad kisser and uses way too much sloppy saliva tongue. yuck!
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Jan 16, 2010 at 10:26 PM
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Ahh! I thought I was alone in this! I can't stand tongue kissing. To me, it's like making out with a dead fish. Blech! I agree that it's all about preferences. It doesn't mean anything is wrong with you. It's like the same as preferring a blonde guy or one with nice teeth. Most people don't see it that way, though
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