is it wrong?

thejon · Nov 08, 2010 at 12:06 PM

i seem to have a problem where i would get sexually aroused and i would feel tempted to masturbate in public and sometimes i do but now after its been a while i feel i dont need to do it anymore would it be wrong to keep doing it?

einundzwanzig · Nov 09, 2010 at 04:45 PM

Is your question whether or not you should masturbate even if you don't feel the need to?

My unprofessional answer would be no. It's not wrong. We all have certain desires. I don't think we should repress them. Giving oneself pleasure is not wrong, in fact, it's healthy.

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Lexaproman · Nov 11, 2010 at 06:21 AM

Whether you feel it is right or wrong is one thing, the problem is regardless of the immediate gratification you are feeding your sexual appetite not channeling it. It promotes a selfish longing which in the ling run will affect your contribution to a partner.

Yean no body wants to admit it but this is a reality to consider.

with or without you · Nov 11, 2010 at 10:05 PM

It's not wrong. I repressed all of this for years and years. I would strongly urge you to do it in private, however....don't want any trouble with the law or any other problems.

Lexaproman · Nov 12, 2010 at 07:06 AM

And I should have added yes when it comes to doing it in public, I mean really should you need to ask that part?

I mean just because something is right or wrong doesn't mean it is okay to do in public.

I mean having sex with your wife or husband isn't wrong but somehow I do not think doing it in the mall is appropriate.

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thejon New Member Member Since Nov 2010 Posts: 1 14	Nov 08, 2010 at 12:06 PM #1 i seem to have a problem where i would get sexually aroused and i would feel tempted to masturbate in public and sometimes i do but now after its been a while i feel i dont need to do it anymore would it be wrong to keep doing it?
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einundzwanzig Member Member Since Nov 2010 Location: Germany Posts: 171 14	Nov 09, 2010 at 04:45 PM #2 Is your question whether or not you should masturbate even if you don't feel the need to? My unprofessional answer would be no. It's not wrong. We all have certain desires. I don't think we should repress them. Giving oneself pleasure is not wrong, in fact, it's healthy. 21
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Lexaproman Member Member Since Nov 2010 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 129 14	Nov 11, 2010 at 06:21 AM #3 Whether you feel it is right or wrong is one thing, the problem is regardless of the immediate gratification you are feeding your sexual appetite not channeling it. It promotes a selfish longing which in the ling run will affect your contribution to a partner. Yean no body wants to admit it but this is a reality to consider.
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with or without you Poohbah Member Since Nov 2010 Location: US Posts: 1,273 14	Nov 11, 2010 at 10:05 PM #4 It's not wrong. I repressed all of this for years and years. I would strongly urge you to do it in private, however....don't want any trouble with the law or any other problems.
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Lexaproman Member Member Since Nov 2010 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 129 14	Nov 12, 2010 at 07:06 AM #5 And I should have added yes when it comes to doing it in public, I mean really should you need to ask that part? I mean just because something is right or wrong doesn't mean it is okay to do in public. I mean having sex with your wife or husband isn't wrong but somehow I do not think doing it in the mall is appropriate.
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