[scorpionsoul]

Hello to all members....

I am 30 years male & my wife is 27yrs, we were married in may 2003, we do have couple of kids as well.'

My problem is I have very high Libido and I love to do sex as an art instead of having dinner. Although I have good relationship with my wife but we do have few problems from day one of our married life. My wife doesn’t like to involve long foreplay sessions, never like to give me oral pleasure, even she like to take oral pleasure. Few times she try to stop me when I try to given her oral pleasure because she feels I might force her after giving her oral pleasure, or may be she think its her duty as well to give me some oral pleasure, even though I am very hygienically clean and I get great oral pleasure from couple of females but now at the age of 30 I guess extra marital affairs for just oral satisfaction is not good for me, because I do not like to known as cheater.

Her sexual urge or Libido is very low, she rarely say yes to me for simple straight forward sex (starting from few kissing exchange, than either she comes on top of me and get orgasm and than I complete my orgasm in missionary or doggy style). She avoid exchanging kisses during intercourse, gave good positive response of my each stroke during sex but once she get her orgasm she absolutely gone off, no response, no kisses, no body caress or even eye to eye contact which I personally believe is very important during intercourse. Few time trust me I hadn’t get my orgasm because without any affection, love, responses & negative words use like “leave me”, “no”, “Please”. I feel frustrated, I had talked with her so many times about her attitude during love making, I had also shown her few sex education documentaries and I got some positive outcomes but after couple of days she again went into selfish or negative type of attitude.

I am dying to listen words from my wife, which my friends wife used and they told me, I simply pissed off but try to show them I am also having sexual life.

1. Can we do sex tonight?
2. Are you ready for a session?
3. Can I wake you up if you sleep darling?
4. Whats your planning about tonight?
5. Can you repeat which you done last night? etc etc

Is it possible that I can hear these words from my life partner in this life?

Is their any solution of our problem?

Can I educate her and increase her sexual urge?

Can I convince her giving blow jobs are not a dirty thing (condom Blow Job will be enough for me, which she denied by saying its even worst than a bare penis).

Is their any other sex education documentary, audio tape, online reading book or any book, DVD in market which can handy.

Kindly help me out as I am feeling very frustrated, I hope you can understand that I gave her a great oral pleasure and she got her orgasm by just vigorous licking, than she got another orgasm during intercourse and than few times I have to sleep without getting my orgasm due to which sometimes I could not sleep all night and than I start thinking negatively about her which is not good.

I do love her as my wife, mother of my kids, caring and doing all household work which most women not able to do these days.

It is my humble request please do not take it lightly, if you already answered this type of question than kindly provide me the URL so I can get the deserving contents. I had taken psychiatrist advice, family doctors advice and done more than enough which comes to my mind or advised by few very close friends, till date I am failed.

Thanks in advance & my prayers and best wishes for making such a great informative platform for all.