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Old Sep 06, 2011, 08:24 PM
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God this is embarassing, but I've got some odd... interests that I'm too embarassed to ask anyone about. No one talks about fetishes in a Catholic household! And seeing as I have Asperger's and social anxiety, I figured the best person(s) to ask would be you strangers I don't know.

Is it normal to have a fetish? I mean, I've never even KISSED a guy and I've somehow come up with the following in order of how much I like them: leather, men being with other men, formal wear, kilts, denim, and extremely violent movies. Yeah. I can't even listen to "Sharp Dressed Man" without drooling all over myself. I've actually got a picture of some dude in a leather tuxedo in my wallet because it's probably the hottest picture I'd be caugh dead carrying around. Because the kilt ones are a little... gah. And as for the homosexual love, I know some men find the reverse attractive...right? Denim really depends on the situation, but it goes so damn well with leather. Leather goes well with freaking everything.

I'm just assuming that this IS normal, but if a guy's taller than me, it's 100% more attractive.

Dying of embarassment here. Just someone tell me this is normal.

Oh and good to be back asking creepy questions. I haven't been on in months. I missed this guy:
Thanks for this!
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Old Sep 06, 2011, 11:40 PM
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For what it's worth I've never gotten to really know someone and not found out they have some type of fetish. Me I like my hair pulled, I think guys in light makeup(little eyeliner some color to their lips) is sexy as hell and a few others. If people are 100% honest with themselves then IMHO everyone has some fetish or another. So the short answer is yes I believe you are normal.
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Old Sep 06, 2011, 11:42 PM
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Yah you are normal.
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Old Sep 07, 2011, 02:42 PM
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Oh thank God. I thought I was some kind of perverted looney; probably has something to do with my grandma saying fetishes were sins. Well, I'll burn in hell before I give up leather.
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Old Sep 07, 2011, 03:07 PM
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Awe heck... that is pretty bland amongst the people I hang with IRL

And just for the record, yeh, really, There is NOTHING like a Hot guy in a kilt! especially the more modern kilts like the ones that look like Carharts. Ahhh... Just a few more days 'till Irish fest... had to get me going didn't ya?
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Oh thank God. I thought I was some kind of perverted looney; probably has something to do with my grandma saying fetishes were sins. Well, I'll burn in hell before I give up leather.
It might be the religious stuff that made you feel ashamed.

I too was brought up by Catholic child care and they were continually shaming me, even about my bodily functions!

You are okay.

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Old Nov 09, 2011, 07:44 AM
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My diognosis= 100% NORMAL! ;D
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