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#1
Nov 29, 2011, 08:54 PM
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Is it okay for a man to have **** sex even after the woman said no? Both of them were having consesual sex before this. It makes me happy I'm not in a relationship. The man would treat me nicely, pay for my meals, and then expect me to have sex with him. Hey, I owe him. I mean, it's not like I asked him to treat me kindly, but since he did, I might as well have sex with. Even if I don't want to, but what I want doesn't matter. I owe him. Gah! I sort of want to be in a relationship, but this thought...
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Nov 29, 2011, 10:06 PM
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No, it is NOT okay for a man to have sex with a man after she says no. No, a woman does NOT owe a man sex just because he buys her dinner or treats her nicely. Sex ALWAYS has to be consensual. A man should NEVER pressure a woman into sex, and a woman should know that she is NEVER obligated to have sex unless she wants to. This holds true for same-sex couples as well. No one ever has the right to demand sex, and no one ever "owes" sex to anyone else.
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Nov 29, 2011, 10:19 PM
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Some people don't think that way. Unfortunately, they think they're entitled to sex. <_<
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Nov 29, 2011, 11:13 PM
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Nov 30, 2011, 12:03 AM
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What?? No. No one is entitled to sex just because they buy you something, unless you have some kind of predetermined agreement (ie they're paying you for sex explicitly and you're a hooker). They can go eff themselves.
No means no. If they said "no" to something, they would be pissed if their boundaries were violated; you owe them nothing. |
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Dec 03, 2011, 01:49 PM
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I don't look for men, mostly because I don't see the point in searching for a date when I'm not attracted to anyone. Although, I do wonder if what I typed has something to do with it. Strange, whenever someone's nice I usually suspect that they want something in return, and sometimes those things aren't pretty.
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Dec 03, 2011, 09:07 PM
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You can say no anytime, and your partner should stop! I dont care if they just bought you a house.
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