[Demonatrix]

Let me start this out by saying that I am a 29 year old lesbian. I have a bit of an issue and Ive tried googling it but I can not find anything. My issue is that I dont get horny, that isnt the main problem though. Even though I am not horny I get really really wet. It annoys me how wet I can get. I sometimes have to wear panty liners because of it. There is sometimes where I will get really wet out of the middle of no where. I know that part is somewhat normal but my lack of sex drive should combat that I would think. I dont masturbate for myself. If A woman enjoys watching someone do it I am happy to masturbate in front of them. I just have no desire to do so when I am alone. However I love to pleasure woman. I have quite a colorful past, I have been with over 100 woman since I was 16 years old. When I pleasure them I get really wet but not horny. Most of the girls dont mind that I dont want anything from them but there has been quite a few woman that want to pleasure me as much as I pleasure them. To be nice I let them, and they think its ok because I am so wet. But after a few minutes I just want them to stop because its not doing anything for me.

I have had a few orgasms. Not very strong or exciting. This was a recent thing. I am a bit of a sadist, and I was in a relationship with a masochist and I was able to get off slightly by covering her mouth and nose till she started struggling, I would get off and uncover her mouth. When I do this I am not horny, I just do it and when I see the look in her eyes of terror I get off. When I spoke to someone about this they thought that because I was a sadist I only got off when I was harming someone. That is not the issue. I am a dominatrix (not professional, just in relationships and for fun on the side) Even when I am doing a session with someone I love I do not get horny or get off. I have been able to get myself off a few times using a vibrator and there wasnt anyone getting hurt durring that.

I have also been with men, I was never able to orgasm with them either. I get really bored and make them stop.

I do have cysts on my ovaries that come and go as they please so sometimes sex does hurt. But I dont think that is the cause of all my problems.

I know this is long but I wanted to try and give as much info as I could so maybe someone would have an idea about what is wrong with me.

Thank you for taking the time to read this and respond.

[Demonatrix]

Anyone have any ideas?

[CantExplain]

Originally Posted by Demonatrix

Anyone have any ideas?

I didn't go into therapy about sex, but as a side-effect, my sex life has considerably improved. I have a better idea of who I am, I'm more at peace with with gay side, I fantasise more freely and my physical response is much broader and more exciting.

So therapy might help. Who knows?