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#1
Feb 22, 2012, 07:05 PM
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I am burning like a forest when I see a female. I have a extremely strong desire to have sex with any woman who I see around me. But when I look at photos on computer or on a electronic device, it doesn't feel like that, it feels different. But in real life, especially attractive girls are making me extremely crazy. I barely hold myself back in order not to attack them.
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Feb 22, 2012, 07:16 PM
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Maybe this post is better off in the sexual and gender issues part of the board.
http://forums.psychcentral.com/forumdisplay.php?f=43 But you're not alone. 
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Feb 23, 2012, 06:03 AM
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Voidray, you are certainly not alone in this. I mentally undress Any woman that is decent looking, especially if she has a good body. I cannot help wondering what she would be like in bed; what forms of sex she would would like, etc. I have a high libido and this is very frustrating because all of my desires are unfulfilled.
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Feb 23, 2012, 09:16 AM
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Oh boy do i relate to this...women and men; it can be unbearable sometimes. I don't really have any words of wisdom/advice, although if its affecting your life to a great extent you could, should you wish too, try seeking some form of help. Your not alone though and i would just like to add that more sex/greater sex will not necessarily help the problem - it certainly hasn't helped me. Hope you find some form of solace, i hope we all do
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Feb 23, 2012, 06:41 PM
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What BB said, it's normal until you're just a sack of nerves because you're in a mental orgy with the crowd
 Btw BB I have no idea who either of those people are in your sig, am I ok? |
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Feb 24, 2012, 02:07 PM
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hi, voidray - there are a lot of attractive women in NYC! it sounds like you need a girlfriend and that it's time to get to know some women rather than just seeing them as physical sex objects. do you date? if not, why?
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Feb 25, 2012, 08:51 AM
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I think it is good that you are able to be honest about this. I am assuming that as you have posted about it, that it is something that is bothering you, or something you want to change.
I can understand that seeing someone who you find attractive may increase sexual desire, but it sounds like this desire is almost overwhelming? Do you have a therapist or a doctor you can talk to about this? As someone who has self harmed in response to overwhelming feelings and knowing how hard it can be to resist this urge, I would really encourage you to talk about your "urges" with a professional. At the end of the day, I think this site should be a safe place to come to be honest about things that are troubling us and to get support and so I respect your openness in doing that. I hope you can get some face to face support with this. Take care - Soup
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Feb 25, 2012, 12:28 PM
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This statement above is what could be triggering to many here, who have a past history of SA. The word attack conjures up words like rape. Do you fear you're capable of attacking /violence against woman? Do you have a girlfriend? Anytime a person feels out of control, this means they need professional help.
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Feb 25, 2012, 03:52 PM
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I'll seek professional help about this issue. I do not want to attack any women. I just exaggerated. But it is true that I always think about sex and fantasize about every woman that I see. |
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Feb 27, 2012, 04:23 AM
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It sounds to me like you simply have a high libido, though I am in full agreement that (and I mean this respectfully as I can...I fear I sound like I am chastising when I am not trying to) your wording is concerning.
I think you are making a very wise decision in seeking a professional. While all of us here want to be of help, we can only offer limited guidance based off our own experiences. In some cases, talking to someone like a counselor or T is simply the best way to go. I hope things work out for you. Please, do take care.
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Feb 27, 2012, 07:58 AM
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In my case, it reminds me of a long-ago lover that I had who was very, very hot. Whenever, we would get together she would literally charge me, knock me over onto a bed, and say "Attack! " It was wonderful.
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#12
Feb 27, 2012, 11:38 PM
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I may have to admit it bothers me a lot. But I have found a way that helps me overcome being alone. I started reading a lot. Books and books and books. So, my mind does not dwell on the fact that I am alone and weak and stuff like that.
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