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Poohbah
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Apr 11, 2012 at 07:25 AM
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How do u know if you're gay! I had sex wih my bd last nite And I was giving him oral, and it made me gag. I don't really look forward to sex and I even masterbate thinking of women or looking at girl-on-girl porn. I've never been with a woman so I don't know. I'm so confusedd.
Just as an FYI, I was married and am in my mid30s. |
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Apr 11, 2012 at 04:06 PM
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Could you be bisexual?
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Apr 11, 2012 at 04:44 PM
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I learned I was bisexual at a young age. My first kiss was with another girl and not only did it do something for me sexually I also found it very emotionally satisfying.
The best piece of advice I got from someone while trying to figure out my sexuality was asking myself when I picture a future (kids, growing old together, daily life, etc) who do I picture? Could I picture a man or a woman, or either? For me it was either, coming to terms with our sexuality and who we are is a long deep journey. The most imporatnat thing is finding support and loving yourself. No matter what your sexual orientation is you have to love yourself and not be ashamed of it Sending you best wishes typo |
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Poohbah
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Apr 11, 2012 at 04:53 PM
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That's a good question- I always considerd that I was probably bi, but I have never acted on it. I have found women attractive and beautiful and can admit that to myself. However, when I picture myself married with kids, it's with a guy - since that's how I've grown up to believe things. My familyw would support me no matter what. I can't picture myself with anyone at this point. Maybe I'm just so confused.
WHat I want to know is how do you know? Or am I just thinking about it too much? If I have to think about it, does that mean that I'm not gay or bisexual? I see my counselor tonight. I've never brought it up, but I plan to. |
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