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Apr 13, 2012 at 05:39 AM
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Anyone know of aphrodisiacs for women? Why can't they just hurry up and invent some kind of Viagra for us?
90% of the time I am not into the moment and would rather sleep than have intercourse with my fiance. I am attracted to him, I love him dearly but very often I just can't plain get aroused. Tips anyone? p.s. I am 24 yrs old, have a 5yr old child, just finished a degree and work full time.. but I think the culprit is my IUD that is hormone induced. Comments? __________________ To name is to call into existence - to call out of nothingness. - Georges Gusdorff |
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Apr 13, 2012 at 07:34 AM
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Maybe IUD but to me it sounds like a combination of busy life and attempting to have sex late at night. Make a lunch date or take advantage of the times when the little one is napping or on a play date. Make time for you. Don't let your sex life, and all of the wonderful family building that goes along with it, be an afterthought. Sometimes it's hard, but don't let an opportunity for a great love making session get pushed aside because there is laundry to do.
Almost forgot, the best aphrodisiac for a woman is an understanding man. A guy can get excited and cum at 4am in the back seat of a mini cooper stuck on a rail road crossing while he's late for a job interview. Personally, my wife gets turned on when I bring home lunch and vacuum so she can relax and eat it. Good luck! |
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Apr 13, 2012 at 06:03 PM
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Almost forgot, the best aphrodisiac for a woman is an understanding man. A guy can get excited and cum at 4am in the back seat of a mini cooper stuck on a rail road crossing while he's late for a job interview." I just laughed my butt off at that! Ohhh my, that was epically hilarious. Thank you  I will take this as a challenge to induce day-sex this weekend
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Apr 13, 2012 at 08:51 PM
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I know of no medically approved aphrodisiacs for women.
What may help is, as big said, taking a bit of time off for yourself and your fiance. Take time beforehand to learn what it is that gets you excited sexually and when the time comes, try to bring these thoughts to the front of your mind since imagination can be a very powerful thing. (Maybe even bring a dvd or magazine that you find arousing?) Skin-to-skin contact has also been shown to improve arousal regulation and helps stimulate it. Lots of foreplay helps too, since women usually find it harder to become aroused than men. Good luck! __________________ 
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