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Default Jun 21, 2013 at 10:20 PM
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Hi everyone,

I am looking for some in site and advice. A few months ago my boyfriend and I started having sex. My boyfriend enjoys this new part of our relationship however, I am always the person that has to instigate the sex. He never does. Also, he prefers one position and does not like to try anything new. I am not really sure what to do about this situation. It is just starting to feel strange to me. Any idea of what I can do or to say? Any advice you cow,d give would be great.

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Default Jun 22, 2013 at 12:38 AM
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Try opening him up to new positions. Maybe once he tries them he will like them. Maybe he is shy.
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Default Jun 22, 2013 at 01:26 AM
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He could be timid or not very comfortable with sex right now. Maybe talk about it more and try to get him more comfortable with his sexuality. Talking is the best way in my opinion.

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Default Jun 22, 2013 at 09:18 AM
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Communication, is key. Have you asked him, why he doesn't initiate?
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