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Apr 16, 2012 at 05:30 PM
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To be open, I like bdsm.. I guess I'm sadistic as. I enjoy having slaves and also being a slave.. I like even cutting myself and Licking it and other partners aswell. I'm sadistic and a bit masochistic even.. Idk is this normal? I feel like a freak
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Apr 16, 2012 at 05:36 PM
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imho if it is consentual by all involved, i personally don't see a problem. besides WHO has the right to decide WHAT is normal? ... just my opinion
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Apr 16, 2012 at 06:05 PM
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Define normal! lol I've heard of stuff like this before, so certainly you aren't alone. Obviously BDSM is quite a common thing. I'd just say, re. bloodletting, be safe. That is to say, make sure your tool is steriled properly and it is not really a good idea to do this with strangers because of HIV and other blood things, but I'm sure you have your own common sense there.
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Apr 16, 2012 at 06:22 PM
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Yes Thankyou being a teen normal is defined between conformed cliques, I notice as you enter the world the only ones that care. Are the ones you let into your life and the ones you influence. Thankyou for your wisdom
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Apr 17, 2012 at 11:33 AM
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There is nothing wrong with BDSM , dominance or submission. The important thing to remember is SAFE SANE AND CONSENSUAL. It is important to set rules, a safe word, and be open with your partners.
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Apr 17, 2012 at 03:34 PM
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Yes understood, sadistic people can sometimes take a wrong turn.. I've heard of sadistic getting bored and their unusual sexual practices get more bizzare and weird as they get older
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Apr 18, 2012 at 06:04 PM
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It isn't neccesarily that, it is just the guidelines the BDSM community really live by. As someone that is involved in BDSM and is a sub in a domminace and submissive relationship those guidlines are in place to keep everyone safe. BDSM is all about trust and respect for the mutual parties involved especially in D/s relationships. Those relationships and sexual experinces can't work if you don't feel safe, don't trust your partner, or don't have respect for them and they you. You are welome to pm me anytime.
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Apr 18, 2012 at 06:26 PM
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Thankyou very much
very helpful advice
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Apr 18, 2012 at 07:19 PM
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Very welcome
like I said you are welcome to pm me anytime. I try to check messages daily. You can ask me any questions you have. I know the world of BDSM is pretty big and varied and sometimes it helps to have someone to talk to.
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Apr 19, 2012 at 08:13 AM
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I will try and contact you im new to this cite
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Apr 19, 2012 at 09:28 AM
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Fetishism I think is a normal desire for a specific body part or activity. Personally I like nice legs on a girl but that's about it.
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Apr 19, 2012 at 02:23 PM
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I agree i love the human body, preferably a female body. I just have darker desires that make things very fantasie like and more interesting to suit my tastes
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