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Jun 04, 2012 at 02:44 PM
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What is it like to have sex with someone you love?
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Jun 04, 2012 at 04:09 PM
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It's awesome but......you have to be emotionally and physically ready!!!!I do not know how old you are and I have not looked at your profile but its a big decision regardless. Also the first time is never that great because although its super, its also scary for both of you. Sorry you did not write more about you or I could have maybe helped you more with the answer...!
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Jun 04, 2012 at 06:15 PM
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It depends, like missbelle said it depends on how old you are and if you're ready. But it can be awesome
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Jun 04, 2012 at 07:16 PM
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I'm almost 22 and just wondered. I'm not in a committed relationship or in love, so this won't happen any time soon.
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Jun 05, 2012 at 05:41 PM
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i'm sorry to say but personally i find that sex with someone i'm in love with it's not that different. Also i'm sorry to say but tv and films make things seem so sensal and romantic all roses and candles but real life isn't like that in my experience. My advise is to just go with the natural flow don't be afraid to have fun. And as for being single in my experience you'll find someone when you least expect it.
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Jun 18, 2012 at 02:53 PM
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Ive been with one guy. I was 21 yr old. We were engaged. Now im 25 yr old. Wish I were still a virgin. so many regrets... U have waited this long and I encourage u to wait til honeymoon. Its an awesome experience and that should only be shared with someone that you are married to. Once you have sex, you have an emotional connection with them always (even though I dislike him very much and we have both moved on 2 years ago). Sex is a very special thing shared between 2 people. Theres nothing bad or wrong or gross about it in the right context.
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