Diaper fetish

I know this will be deemed strange to a lot of people, but I feel it's something I should be more open about. It's totally harmless and for me, non-sexual and not addictive. I do not wear them myself, but have somewhat of a fascination in seeing others in them. I remember clearly from childhood liking them. My problem is I feel it's stopping me from being in a relationship. I'd never force anyone to do something that made them uncomfortable, but I almost feel like this is something I need to experience. I don't know how to handle it almost. Do I need to talk with a therapist or just deal with it on my own terms? I feel like a freak sometimes, yes, but I know these feelings won't change. I have some other kinks/fetishes I'm into, which may be a bit out there more-so than diapers. I'm just wondering if this is something I should really stay private about, even though I mentioned I want to be open about it all. I really don't know where to turn. I've tried to get these thoughts out of my head, but they always return. Any advice/comments would be appreciated; thank you.

You're not alone and its a well known fetish. Since this doesn't seem to be interfering in your happiness, I don't think you need stop it. This is my opinion, but I think stifling a fetish, actually fuels it and makes it worse. There have been other posters here with this same fetish and there are varying degrees.

A fetish only becomes a problem if, you can't control it or its interfering with your inner peace and happiness. As long as you can carry on in a normal relationship, then you'll be fine. There are people who like to wear them - maybe find someone who doesn't mind fulfilling that for you. You're not hurting anyone. We had one man here who was very scared about posting this fetish and he felt much better when he got supportive replies.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diaper_fetishism

Yes, I believe that's what keeps me going - knowing that I'm not alone. In a way, it does interfere with how I feel. I almost grow upset, thinking I'll never able to experience something like this with another. Like I said, I wouldn't make someone do it if it made them uncomfortable and I truly think that will be difficult to find. I have no plans to stop or give up, however. I haven't dated in 6 years, because I get afraid about being too open, especially about this subject.

I definitely have control over any urges - I find these sort of fetishes to be non-sexual in nature for me personally. I feel better about being honest and to terms about this, but in the end I want so much more, but instead I'm constantly worrying. I know I'm not a freak. I guess I just need to be more active/involved and get out there in the world at the same time.

Do you just want that person to wear a diaper in front of you, what do you want them to do? Is it just the diaper or would you like to be a parent figure also? Finding someone with similar interests would be perfect, but there are ways around that. You could find someone who will fulfill your dreams even if it is not their thing, but you would need to be open to making their dreams come true, just as they did for you. A fetish quid pro quo. But that will require putting your desires on the table in front of some people, which will open you up to rejection. I feel like as much as it sounds like you long for this type of play you would be doing yourself a disservice by not fulfilling your desires.

Yes, I just want someone to wear one in front of me. I'd like to be a parent figure. I'd be totally accepting of someone's dreams/desires and gladly take part in whatever it would be. I must be honest - I'm afraid of rejection the most. I guess that's why I haven't stood up to even begin trying to form a relationship. I think with due time I'll get things figured out and have experience. I must take care of myself first at the moment before I can get into something like this.

Hello Borntoroam, Don't worry about what you need, as long as you are not thinking or wanting to invovle minors and you don't want to harm anyone. Then seek out your needs.... there are probably thousands of individuals in your area who would love to have the opportunity to be seen in a diaper.

I am a lot older than you (64) and oh how much my inner pain is, just for my baby me to be accepted and seen by others. Yes at times I feel a total freak and have also tried to take my own life on a number of occasions.

I have been in therapy for the last four and a half years, my therapist conculsion is... I must allow myself to be me... don't try to fit in where I don't..... it is very lonely, but if I could just be "ME" even just whilst at home, then perhaps I would be happier with my capability to live in a way I feel okay with.

Yes my real happieness would be by finding someone who loves and cares for me for who I am.

Do not isolate yourself, for this will only grow with age. Go with your needs, be careful who you get involved with, there are many people who will do anything in the name of fetish..... On the other side there are a lot of loving and caring people.

Best wishes in your search... you should not find it anywhere as hard as it is for an "Adult baby" especially when its not a fetish but the "REAL" me.