Diaper Fetish

Hi im a 28 year old male with a diaper fetish, I don't really know what to do about it, I know many people say just accept its part of what you like and you are harming nobody but I cant. I avoid relationships and hooking up with women because I feel bad about it. I have not been sexually active in a number of years and I have worries that I would find intercourse difficult without my fetish object involved. I really enjoy and appreciate women but I think I have conditioned myself by being alone and myself being my only sexual outlet. I don't want to be rejected by someone or even burden them with something like this if that makes sense. I have considered hypnotism I don't know if this would help. I am not sure if I will ever get rid of my fetish but I would like it to be something that is there but not play such a big role or impact my sexuality and happiness as much as it does. I also take anti anxiety medication which does not help with the sex drive to be honest. Im working on reducing that but again it all seems to be a circle of stuff feeding off each other. I think I would be happier if I was not so reliant on this fetish Im just so weak with it. Any advice or experiences would be appreciated Thank you.

Hi there,

I think it would help if you were able to talk about the fetish without being nervous about being attacked for it, ya know? Sometimes its good to explore thoughts. I think there is a reason why we say the things we do, do the things we do, get attracted to the things we do.

It always helps to if you're not alone, but I do not have this fetish, so I would just suggest talking about it more. You can pm me anytime, and I'll try to get back to you, although sometimes I can forget to check for a few days so I apologize in advance.

If this fetish is causing you problems, then it might be good to talk about it, and hopefully with someone who doesn't necessarily require you to change, just to explore the thoughts, why you have the fetish, what goes through your mind about it, ect, especially since you are saying that you can't at this point accept the fetish without it ruining your sex life.

you take it easy,
-obj

Thanks for your response, I know being negative about it is probably a bad start im just at that point with it at the moment but thanks for your support

move to the UK we could both wear diapers together! mine are a medical necessity but i do know what you mean. i have resigned myself to the fact my destiny is to be alone. it is scary to even contemplate how a person i really fancy will react if they find out i wear diapers and even more so as i not only wear them but use them for their full purpose as i am fully double incontinent! unlike you my diapers do not invoke any sexual feelings, but saying that nothing has for years!
try googling diaper fettish, you will be suprised how many things come up.

there are women who will accept you and your fetish... not all are judgemental. you can try joining diaper fetish communities online? that might help you feel less isolated. i have seen a lot of diaper fetishists who have a girlfriend or spouse that act the role of a mom while making love.