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This will sound ridiculous but I find it difficult to compartmentalise between sex and love.
I feel that if I love someone my desire for sex with them decreases as I then feel I am taking advantage of a very, very good friend just for my own physical pleasure. Like I say, it sounds absolutely ridiculous, I know full well that women enjoy sex just as much as men but I just have this stupid view that having sex with them gives them the impression that I don't actually care about them and that the only reason I am with them is for my own personal and selfish pleasure. Really embarassed to have admitted that, but oh well. |
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Sex is a normal part of a romantic relationship so there shouldnt be any guilt. Maybe there is another issue attached to this that you and your T could explore
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Thank you, I think I will bring this up with my T.
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Something similar was described in Anna Karenina - towards the end, as Vronsky's love for Anna decreased, his sexual desire for her increased.
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