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Old Nov 16, 2012, 03:05 PM
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How much is normal to have sex/ sexual activity? Is there a point where it would be considered too much? I'm just trying to establish what's "normal". It's a lot less frequent with my guy than with my ex, but he's happy enough with that and even jokingly calls me needy!

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Old Nov 16, 2012, 04:52 PM
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I think it's only "too much" when it interferes with daily life. Other than that, it's just a matter of compatibility. I think the chances are in any relationship that one partner is going to have a higher libido than the other, whether that's a small difference or a large one. Him having a lower libido than you doesn't make you needy or your needs being "too much".

If you are used to a certain frequency of sex, maybe habit plays a part as well? It might be a matter of adjusting to the frequency in your new relationship?
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Old Nov 16, 2012, 05:24 PM
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I agree with pandoren. It's whatever is "normal" for you both as a couple, as long as itdoesn't interfer most people would say I have too much, but as long as we are happy with it I don't see a problem.
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Old Nov 16, 2012, 08:49 PM
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Pandoren said it perfectly. As long as it doesn't interrupt your life (ie I didn't do _____ because ______), things are absolutely fine.
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Old Nov 22, 2012, 03:01 PM
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There's nothing wrong with too much sex unless, like most have said, it interrupts with your daily life.

You should be proud, not too many women can keep up with those horny boys; and some might say a high sex drive in women isn't normal, but I beg to differ.
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