Do you prefer bigger male packages?

nicoleb2 · Nov 16, 2012 at 12:31 AM

I didn't vote because I have only ever had sex with my husband, so I can't compare to anything

shezbut · Nov 16, 2012 at 12:42 AM

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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster

177 people have viewed this and only 9 voted? I mean, out of 177 about 90 are women - why only 10% are voting?

This is my first time reading the post, but I didn't vote either. My reason is that there's more to it than yes or no. I have been with several different men. All sized differently. A big part is when knows what he's doing & if he is willing to take cues to ____. It seems to take experience on both sides to get to the point where we know what men & women like (generally) and we know how to do those things.

Personally, I think that the "energy" between the man and woman really makes it spectacular. In case you're wondering what I mean by energy, I'm referring to the desire that you feel inside towards one another. And when your eyes lock, fireworks are going off inside both of you. That is energy!

In my experience, when those fireworks are going off size is not a factor. One way or another you're both determined to give the other your all, and bring them to a bliss.

hamster-bamster · Nov 16, 2012 at 09:15 AM

Well, I do not have that energy for him yet, but things are getting better and I decided that I should be happy that he is average and not small. He really is. So that is a good thing. I also just remembered that I have a "Liberator wedge" which is a piece of sex furniture that deepens penetration and next time he comes over I will use it.

hamster-bamster · Nov 16, 2012 at 09:16 AM

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Originally Posted by shezbut

In my experience, when those fireworks are going off size is not a factor. One way or another you're both determined to give the other your all, and bring them to a bliss.

What a great post.

Nov 16, 2012 at 11:03 AM

You can't get rid of it! It is who you are and what you like. Guys like bigger breasts etc. by nature, they of course will settle for whatever is on the table lol just like us. There's nothing wrong with it! And I have been witness to the growth factor, guys who have more sex, are bigger....I don't know how it happens but it happened in the two serious sexual relationships in my life, both guys were much smaller at the beginning and after a few months of regular sex, they grew. I don't know how or why but I take this as a sign of use it or lose it. So there's hope for a guy who's not all he could be at first glance. Hope I at least let you know you are not wrong for having preferences, guys do it all the time. Yours truly, Lightbulb7

bighands · 02:10 PM

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Originally Posted by lightbulb7

both guys were much smaller at the beginning and after a few months of regular sex, they grew.

Hahaha. GTF outta here!

There you go ladies! Put out more. It's only in your own best interest in the long run! Conversely, for the ladies who don't want them bigger, I guess you are motivated to have sex less for fear it'll make his willie grow?!?!

Nov 16, 2012 at 02:59 PM

Definitely. But how they use it also plays a huge part! My last dom was not the largest but definitely knew his stuff! My man now is bigger than ever previously, and its not that different. As well i think its better to hold if its larger. I myself have tiny boobs, which i used to be insecure about so i understand how a guy could feel, but everyone has their preferences, some guys like small boobs, some like huge boobs, .

Nov 16, 2012 at 04:46 PM

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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster

I think that you might be more tolerant than I am because this r/s with a male is a new thing to you.

You may be right hamster. My case is very different than yours. I just know as a general rule, way back, early sexual ideals, I always thought it foolish to want more. Now reading this thread, I realize there is a preference for the feelings I have always deemed unpleasurable. This thread has been very interesting and informing to me, that so many women seek this. I thought it was more in guys heads and show for porn, but obviously I was mistaken. Though we may be the minority, kinda like 'chubby chasers' in men, I am not alone in my desire for less.

Very good topic. Thanks for starting this one!

hamster-bamster · Nov 16, 2012 at 10:31 PM

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Originally Posted by lightbulb7

You can't get rid of it! It is who you are and what you like. Guys like bigger breasts etc. by nature, they of course will settle for whatever is on the table lol just like us. There's nothing wrong with it! And I have been witness to the growth factor, guys who have more sex, are bigger....I don't know how it happens but it happened in the two serious sexual relationships in my life, both guys were much smaller at the beginning and after a few months of regular sex, they grew. I don't know how or why but I take this as a sign of use it or lose it. So there's hope for a guy who's not all he could be at first glance. Hope I at least let you know you are not wrong for having preferences, guys do it all the time. Yours truly, Lightbulb7

For the record, not all guys like bigger breasts. I know two guys who absolutely hate big breasts... just despise them and are put off by them big time. One is my father. His second wife had no breasts and he was absolutely crazy about her. His third wife has some breast tissue, but not a lot.

So it does happen, it is just a rare occurrence.

hamster-bamster · Nov 16, 2012 at 10:34 PM

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Originally Posted by lightbulb7

guys who have more sex, are bigger....

So my European guy is smaller now than he was many years ago - back then he was spectacular but now is just average, which is disappointing. I thought that there are two factors at play: 1) many years of smoking - google "smoking penis size" and you will see what I mean 2) the visual effect of his belly, which is no longer flat, and erections look better against flat bellies, right?

But now that I have read your post, I believe that this can be another factor, because he has very little sex.

hamster-bamster · Nov 16, 2012 at 10:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Tru_Butterfly

You may be right hamster. My case is very different than yours. I just know as a general rule, way back, early sexual ideals, I always thought it foolish to want more. Now reading this thread, I realize there is a preference for the feelings I have always deemed unpleasurable. This thread has been very interesting and informing to me, that so many women seek this. I thought it was more in guys heads and show for porn, but obviously I was mistaken. Though we may be the minority, kinda like 'chubby chasers' in men, I am not alone in my desire for less.

Very good topic. Thanks for starting this one!

You are absolutely right, there are objective feelings/sensations besides the look, such as really hard, deep penetration and being choked.

hamster-bamster · Nov 16, 2012 at 11:47 PM

Another thing that is more fun to do with bigger guys is open their jeans when they are erect.

hamster-bamster · Nov 17, 2012 at 01:23 AM

I still cannot explain the discrepancy between the high view count and the low vote count. So some people have been with one partner only so they basically only know their baseline and nothing else - fine. I do not think this is common, but some people. For others there are other factors, fine. But THAT degree of a discrepancy is simply beyond my comprehension.

the submissive · Nov 17, 2012 at 04:45 AM

Hey there, im new here -nice to meet you! I definately prefer the bigger male packge! For me its all part of the dominant thing. Its bigger and feels like it "owns" you more.
M.

hamster-bamster · Nov 17, 2012 at 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by the submissive

Hey there, im new here -nice to meet you! I definately prefer the bigger male packge! For me its all part of the dominant thing. Its bigger and feels like it "owns" you more.
M.

That makes sense. I am vanilla but I understand perfectly well what you are saying.

unaluna · Nov 17, 2012 at 01:06 PM

okay, i'll bite (sic). how big is big? too big and fellatio is pretty much impossible. this would be the first time somebody tells me my mouth isn't big enough

also, having had extremely varied experience, I go with the saying, it's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean. once a woman learns how to work her own parts, it's about the partnership, the r/s, not the... whatever.

Big Mama · Nov 17, 2012 at 01:45 PM

I agree, you both gotta know your own stuff. To make things good you have to do more then be present. Participate and make good things happen.

I hate going to the dentist. I don't have enough room in my mouth for all of my teeth. The dentist surely know what I do not do. There no way a di** is fitting in there to.

The poor guy who forced me to do what don't want to do, there was a price to pay for that. He managed to work around the small mouth issues but still there must have been teeth marks to show for it. I should have bit him but I didn't. He was a large guy in combo w/ my small mouth, it could not have been a good thing. Serves him right. You don't force some one to do that. Sorry my own little piece of hell came out. OOPS.

hamster-bamster · Nov 17, 2012 at 02:20 PM

Once my wisdom teeth were taken out my mouth became roomy. I have a big smile. It was amazing what wisdom teeth removal achieved.

Big Mama · Nov 17, 2012 at 04:50 PM

I still have my wizdom teeth. They have caused bad issues the dentist say best to leave to them alone now. When more problems occur we will deal w/ them now.

If keeping my wizdom teeth make it difficult to give bj's then I'll keep them for extra incentive, to deter folks from putting things in unwanted places. Like I said in one of your other posts (can't remember which one exactly) I have good reason to have aversions to bj's.

hamster-bamster · Nov 17, 2012 at 11:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Raindropvampire

Hopefully Michael will measure up. I'm so sorry I couldn't pass that up

So I sent him a chat asking about his vacation. It turns out, he is still here and just leaving for Patagonia on Tuesday. He must be indifferent towards me if he still has not found an opportunity to have lunch with me. You can tell an interested guy by how quickly he acts. My old French lover arranged for a lecture at Stanford in early December, which is basically impossible to do because such things are usually arranged months in advanced but he managed. That's true male interest at play, no questions asked. And Michael, no. So I doubt that I will have a chance to report on my findings with Michael.

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nicoleb2 Magnate Member Since Nov 2010 Location: Minnesota Posts: 2,439 13 25 hugs given	Nov 16, 2012 at 12:31 AM #21 I didn't vote because I have only ever had sex with my husband, so I can't compare to anything
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hamster-bamster Account Suspended Member Since Sep 2011 Location: Northern California Posts: 14,805 (SuperPoster!) 13 3,729 hugs given	Nov 16, 2012 at 09:15 AM #23 Well, I do not have that energy for him yet, but things are getting better and I decided that I should be happy that he is average and not small. He really is. So that is a good thing. I also just remembered that I have a "Liberator wedge" which is a piece of sex furniture that deepens penetration and next time he comes over I will use it.
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hamster-bamster Account Suspended Member Since Sep 2011 Location: Northern California Posts: 14,805 (SuperPoster!) 13 3,729 hugs given	Nov 16, 2012 at 11:47 PM #32 Another thing that is more fun to do with bigger guys is open their jeans when they are erect.
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hamster-bamster Account Suspended Member Since Sep 2011 Location: Northern California Posts: 14,805 (SuperPoster!) 13 3,729 hugs given	Nov 17, 2012 at 01:23 AM #33 I still cannot explain the discrepancy between the high view count and the low vote count. So some people have been with one partner only so they basically only know their baseline and nothing else - fine. I do not think this is common, but some people. For others there are other factors, fine. But THAT degree of a discrepancy is simply beyond my comprehension.
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the submissive Member Member Since Nov 2012 Location: England Posts: 60 11 10 hugs given	Nov 17, 2012 at 04:45 AM #34 Hey there, im new here -nice to meet you! I definately prefer the bigger male packge! For me its all part of the dominant thing. Its bigger and feels like it "owns" you more. M.
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hamster-bamster Account Suspended Member Since Sep 2011 Location: Northern California Posts: 14,805 (SuperPoster!) 13 3,729 hugs given	Nov 17, 2012 at 02:20 PM #38 Once my wisdom teeth were taken out my mouth became roomy. I have a big smile. It was amazing what wisdom teeth removal achieved.
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