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Old Nov 16, 2012, 01:55 PM
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both guys were much smaller at the beginning and after a few months of regular sex, they grew.
Hahaha. GTF outta here!

There you go ladies! Put out more. It's only in your own best interest in the long run! Conversely, for the ladies who don't want them bigger, I guess you are motivated to have sex less for fear it'll make his willie grow?!?!

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Old Nov 16, 2012, 02:59 PM
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Definitely. But how they use it also plays a huge part! My last dom was not the largest but definitely knew his stuff! My man now is bigger than ever previously, and its not that different. As well i think its better to hold if its larger. I myself have tiny boobs, which i used to be insecure about so i understand how a guy could feel, but everyone has their preferences, some guys like small boobs, some like huge boobs, .
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Old Nov 16, 2012, 04:46 PM
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I think that you might be more tolerant than I am because this r/s with a male is a new thing to you.
You may be right hamster. My case is very different than yours. I just know as a general rule, way back, early sexual ideals, I always thought it foolish to want more. Now reading this thread, I realize there is a preference for the feelings I have always deemed unpleasurable. This thread has been very interesting and informing to me, that so many women seek this. I thought it was more in guys heads and show for porn, but obviously I was mistaken. Though we may be the minority, kinda like 'chubby chasers' in men, I am not alone in my desire for less.

Very good topic. Thanks for starting this one!
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Old Nov 16, 2012, 10:31 PM
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You can't get rid of it! It is who you are and what you like. Guys like bigger breasts etc. by nature, they of course will settle for whatever is on the table lol just like us. There's nothing wrong with it! And I have been witness to the growth factor, guys who have more sex, are bigger....I don't know how it happens but it happened in the two serious sexual relationships in my life, both guys were much smaller at the beginning and after a few months of regular sex, they grew. I don't know how or why but I take this as a sign of use it or lose it. So there's hope for a guy who's not all he could be at first glance. Hope I at least let you know you are not wrong for having preferences, guys do it all the time. Yours truly, Lightbulb7
For the record, not all guys like bigger breasts. I know two guys who absolutely hate big breasts... just despise them and are put off by them big time. One is my father. His second wife had no breasts and he was absolutely crazy about her. His third wife has some breast tissue, but not a lot.

So it does happen, it is just a rare occurrence.
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Old Nov 16, 2012, 10:34 PM
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guys who have more sex, are bigger....
So my European guy is smaller now than he was many years ago - back then he was spectacular but now is just average, which is disappointing. I thought that there are two factors at play: 1) many years of smoking - google "smoking penis size" and you will see what I mean 2) the visual effect of his belly, which is no longer flat, and erections look better against flat bellies, right?

But now that I have read your post, I believe that this can be another factor, because he has very little sex.
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Old Nov 16, 2012, 10:36 PM
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You may be right hamster. My case is very different than yours. I just know as a general rule, way back, early sexual ideals, I always thought it foolish to want more. Now reading this thread, I realize there is a preference for the feelings I have always deemed unpleasurable. This thread has been very interesting and informing to me, that so many women seek this. I thought it was more in guys heads and show for porn, but obviously I was mistaken. Though we may be the minority, kinda like 'chubby chasers' in men, I am not alone in my desire for less.

Very good topic. Thanks for starting this one!
You are absolutely right, there are objective feelings/sensations besides the look, such as really hard, deep penetration and being choked.
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Old Nov 16, 2012, 11:47 PM
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Another thing that is more fun to do with bigger guys is open their jeans when they are erect.
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Old Nov 17, 2012, 01:23 AM
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I still cannot explain the discrepancy between the high view count and the low vote count. So some people have been with one partner only so they basically only know their baseline and nothing else - fine. I do not think this is common, but some people. For others there are other factors, fine. But THAT degree of a discrepancy is simply beyond my comprehension.
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Old Nov 17, 2012, 04:45 AM
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Hey there, im new here -nice to meet you! I definately prefer the bigger male packge! For me its all part of the dominant thing. Its bigger and feels like it "owns" you more.
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Old Nov 17, 2012, 12:09 PM
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Hey there, im new here -nice to meet you! I definately prefer the bigger male packge! For me its all part of the dominant thing. Its bigger and feels like it "owns" you more.
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That makes sense. I am vanilla but I understand perfectly well what you are saying.
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Old Nov 17, 2012, 01:06 PM
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okay, i'll bite (sic). how big is big? too big and fellatio is pretty much impossible. this would be the first time somebody tells me my mouth isn't big enough also, having had extremely varied experience, I go with the saying, it's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean. once a woman learns how to work her own parts, it's about the partnership, the r/s, not the... whatever.
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Old Nov 17, 2012, 01:45 PM
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I agree, you both gotta know your own stuff. To make things good you have to do more then be present. Participate and make good things happen.

I hate going to the dentist. I don't have enough room in my mouth for all of my teeth. The dentist surely know what I do not do. There no way a di** is fitting in there to.

The poor guy who forced me to do what don't want to do, there was a price to pay for that. He managed to work around the small mouth issues but still there must have been teeth marks to show for it. I should have bit him but I didn't. He was a large guy in combo w/ my small mouth, it could not have been a good thing. Serves him right. You don't force some one to do that. Sorry my own little piece of hell came out. OOPS.
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Old Nov 17, 2012, 02:20 PM
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Once my wisdom teeth were taken out my mouth became roomy. I have a big smile. It was amazing what wisdom teeth removal achieved.
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Old Nov 17, 2012, 04:50 PM
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I still have my wizdom teeth. They have caused bad issues the dentist say best to leave to them alone now. When more problems occur we will deal w/ them now.

If keeping my wizdom teeth make it difficult to give bj's then I'll keep them for extra incentive, to deter folks from putting things in unwanted places. Like I said in one of your other posts (can't remember which one exactly) I have good reason to have aversions to bj's.
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Old Nov 17, 2012, 11:25 PM
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Hopefully Michael will measure up. I'm so sorry I couldn't pass that up
So I sent him a chat asking about his vacation. It turns out, he is still here and just leaving for Patagonia on Tuesday. He must be indifferent towards me if he still has not found an opportunity to have lunch with me. You can tell an interested guy by how quickly he acts. My old French lover arranged for a lecture at Stanford in early December, which is basically impossible to do because such things are usually arranged months in advanced but he managed. That's true male interest at play, no questions asked. And Michael, no. So I doubt that I will have a chance to report on my findings with Michael.
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Old Nov 18, 2012, 03:00 AM
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Hamster, I voted & like bigger packages, it's not how their erection looks.
Bigger packages can perform in more positions, very appealing to me.
It's like any size tho, they gotta know how to use it & communication is key.
Very interesting thread.
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Old Nov 18, 2012, 07:00 AM
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So my European guy is smaller now than he was many years ago - back then he was spectacular but now is just average, which is disappointing. I thought that there are two factors at play: 1) many years of smoking - google "smoking penis size" and you will see what I mean 2) the visual effect of his belly, which is no longer flat, and erections look better against flat bellies, right?

But now that I have read your post, I believe that this can be another factor, because he has very little sex.
So, im still stuck on this growth statement. You girls actually feel like a mans penis gets larger with more frequent sex? Like thicker and longer or just better erections? How much bigger are we talking about?

Btw, hurray for you ladies with small vaginas! You can make us average Joes feel liike porn stars!
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Old Nov 18, 2012, 10:43 PM
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Hahaha. GTF outta here!

There you go ladies! Put out more. It's only in your own best interest in the long run! Conversely, for the ladies who don't want them bigger, I guess you are motivated to have sex less for fear it'll make his willie grow?!?!
ok this is a bit embarrassing but not all of us that prefer a smaller penis have less sex. I'm hypersexual. Right now I am very frustrated because for the first 2 1/2 years my husband and I were together we'd have sex at the bare minimum 4 times a day but sometimes as much as 10 man those were good days. Now he can barely manage once every 2-3 weeks. He says I broke him and wore him out The only difference other than he hit 40 is they changed his psych meds and I know some of them affect sex drive so.........

Hamster it's his loss that he couldn't make time for you. Also as far as this guy being more impressive when you were younger. Is it possible you just hadn't seen that many back then so to your younger self he looked bigger?
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Old Nov 18, 2012, 10:48 PM
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4 times a day and as much as ten. Yikes. 4 times in 8 weeks is 4 times to many. I am angry w/ my H and what lust he didn't get red of the meds did. So what do you call a person who could care less about sex.
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Old Nov 18, 2012, 11:00 PM
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I have returned to find this thread alive and kicking! Much to my delight! Move over Oprah, Hamster-Bamster in da haaaaa!!!!! lol but really, nice thread and so interesting lol.
Thanks for this!
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Old Nov 19, 2012, 02:52 PM
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I like a large size if I can comfortably accommodate him, but their are limits I suppose. I find the feeling of fullness that comes with penetration very exciting. Frequent and varied sex is probably more important than my man's physical endowment however.
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Old Nov 19, 2012, 04:18 PM
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Do you find that a larger tool necessarily makes it easier to have an orgasm via intercourse alone or you just prefer the feeling?
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Old Nov 19, 2012, 04:33 PM
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I personally prefer the filling of fullness. Intercourse gets in my way of orgasam. But I really think that a matter of timing on my mans part and knowledge of what I want makes it not so great. By the time I get "there" he is beyond ready.

If I cum w/ out him inside of me. There is certinly a need to have his presence known after the fact. It doesn't make it happen again. It just satisfies jealousy of other parts. We wouldn't want jealous ignored parts/areas now would we.
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Old Nov 20, 2012, 02:35 AM
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4 times a day and as much as ten. Yikes. 4 times in 8 weeks is 4 times to many. I am angry w/ my H and what lust he didn't get red of the meds did. So what do you call a person who could care less about sex.
My husband ??? hehehehe I just can't resist a setup like that
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Old Nov 20, 2012, 08:13 AM
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Funny, Funny, Funny. I needed a good laugh w/ my morning coffee Rain
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