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Red face Jan 23, 2014 at 08:55 PM
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Is there anything you do to your partner that goes into degrading type territory? For example sometimes my partner licks my face and this is hot but it makes me feel objectified and somewhat degraded.

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Default Jan 24, 2014 at 12:01 AM
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My ex used to do this kind of stuff. I pretended it was my thing, but I didn't enjoy it. Some people like being treated as an object though. It's really just personal taste.

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Default Jan 24, 2014 at 07:18 AM
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Oh jeeze ...

I mentioned this before in another thread, but as my wife has gotten older she's wanted me to be more dominant as in a milder BDSM type of thing. You know make her call me master, spankings, tying up ... that stuff.

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Default Jan 25, 2014 at 09:49 PM
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Is there anything you do to your partner that goes into degrading type territory? For example sometimes my partner licks my face and this is hot but it makes me feel objectified and somewhat degraded.

It would not have made me feel objectified or degraded. Rather, it would have made me wonder if by chance my partner has been turned into a dog by a sorcerer.

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