Ladies and porn

I answered a post talking about guys and porn, and how their partners feel about it, and I admitted I have no problem with my man and porn. I actively encourage it !
It got me wondering am I in the minority ? Is it odd that a woman enjoys porn ? I enjoy all sorts except anything too freaky, not gay porn either but pretty much anything. I love my man watching films and we watch them together, but as we don't live together, he often watches them alone.
I love porn magazines too, happily watch my man get aroused looking at pictures. We often look together and he tells me the pics he likes and we fantasise together.
The naked female and male body is erotic, and exciting.
Although I'm not into BDSM, gay action or the more 'extreme' porn, (just my tastes) anything goes. I am straight but even the lesbian porn my man loves, gets me hot too. Yet I would never want sex with a woman.

It's all just enjoying the harmless titalation of nudity, sex and yes the 'naughtiness' of watching people have sex, masturbate, and the novelty of finding whatever fetishes erotic.
I love seeing the women in fishnets, sexy lingerie and heels. Oh yes, heels. I love to be ****ed in my heels !
I am fascinated with women who can squirt, I'd love to be able to, to watch it is very erotic and a great turn on.
I could list all my sexual preferences, but better not.

Some women and men see porn as degrading and abusive to women. I dissagree, no one forces them to do what they do.

As I said in my other post, enjoying porn with a partner or alone is just visual stimulation and fantasy.

I for one, ( horny) female, just love it.

Am I weird ?
What do you ladies think ?
I would value ladies' and gents' opinions very much.

Gent here. No, you are not in the minority. You are in the majority and I am in the minority.

To me, what a couple do in their privacy is their prerogative. Personally, it isn't something I could do or would feel necessary to do. My ex, and the one female I am still in love with, felt the same as I did. We never did that kind of thing and didn't feel the need to. In fact, we shared intimacy together and didn't need to do anything else away from each other. That was just us. I would just rather make my own love, not watch someone else's. The only person I ever wanted to fantasize about was her, no one else. Luckily for me she felt the same, and I can't find anyone else like me.

I have talked to a lot of people about this, and they all seem to think this activity is normal. It just isn't for me, but their certainly isn't anything wrong with you and if you both have an understanding and enjoy it then there is no problem. Carry on.

Thank you for your opinion

Would MUCH rather do it than watch it but I have no problem with porn. Usually if I watch it it's with hubby. Out of all my female friends I only have one that hates porn and finds it degrading. So I'd say you are in the majority.

I personally enjoy it (and actually where I am at right now mentally, I would rather just enjoy things in the comfort of my own home alone rather than be touched by anyone else)...yes I feel naughty sometimes watching it, but I too enjoy watching all kinds...I agree that it is very exciting, and I definitely get turned on by it. So at least so far here on this thread, you are not the minority!

(makes me feel better too, because I thought it was kinda weird that I like to watch what I do, but I see our tastes are similar)

Great thread!

Guy here.

I'm 19, and given my age and biology...lol well, perhaps a bit of a connoisseur?

I think porn in a relationship is okay, but it has to be expressly agreed upon by both partners as okay. It has the capability to make one partner insecure or otherwise upset if they feel that it is a form of infidelity, which I think is rather understandable. I personally stop viewing porn whenever I'm in a relationship out of respect to my partner, though I don't look down on those who don't. It's ultimately a matter of communication, like most things tend to be.

Porn is something I can watch with a partner and get ideas to try new things...in fact, many of my fantasies have come from watching porn. There's a lot of things I'd like to try that I saw in porn. Is it realistic? Not necessarily. It's something to modify, because there's a lot of things I am no way near capable of doing, but hey, I'm always up to trying new things.

I don't think it matters much if you are in the majority or minority. It's a personal choice and if you are content with it then so be it either way.

I would say I am in the minority, I don't tho feel odd about it in any way.

Ad Infinitum

This living, this living, this living..was always a project of mine

Porn is to sex what caffeine pills are to coffee. Sure, sipping a nice coffee is more satisfying ... but the pills can hit faster and with more impact.

Back in college I thought it was ... interesting ... to watch women looking at porn. Sometimes they would read the Penthouse letters out loud.

I watch it alone. I watch w/ my H. He watches it w/ out me. It's all OK. It has opened alot of doors to communication that we would not have otherwise been able to explain or express. So it is a good thing. My H and I both have a very limited amount of sexual experience to bring to the table. Which is not a bad thing but porn has opened our eyes to the possibilities.

In my own personal time I like female friendly, romantic not BSDM. Though there is a time and place for that as well just not my typical viewing preference. I have watched lesbian clips and that does not offend me but I do not want to give it a try.

My H has no issues w/ my viewing prefrences. He'll ask me from time to time "is there anything you have run across you'd like to show me". As for magizines, same thing No issues there. When it comes to being female and viewing the female body, a female body and form is designed to be pretty and it was and is intended to be seen that way in some contexts. Just as the male body was designed to be masculine and muscular or more muscle mass then a womans it's ok to view men and there bodies as well.

I tell my H "We are married not blind". So look, enjoy from a distance, as an art form as a creation of Gods. It's all ok. But don't abuse a good thing. So enjoy your body and what humanity stirs in you.

I've always liked porn (although, oddly, historical and some other romance novels turn me on more), and never had a problem with a guy watching it (and I don't mind watching with him), unless he's watching it obsessively. You know, I'm here and I need attention, LOL!

I'm not turned on by gay porn, but I don't mind watching it. I'm not into anything too freaky, either, but as long as it's consenting adults, I generally feel anything is okay. (That means no bestiality or necrophilia, for the record.)

In the past several years, I've had almost no physical desire for sex, so I've not been looking much at porn or erotica. I want to FIX THIS!!! I am not one of those women who don't mind that their sex drive is dwindling. Sex has always been painful for me (intercourse, specifically), but I can masturbate and find pleasure without inserting anything inside me, so this really distresses me. One would think I'd be happy to not desire sex since it's painful, but I know how to get pleasure from it. It's just rare these days. I've brought it up with gynecologists but they just tell me to use Zestra (http://www.zestra.com/), but that is messy and didn't help that much. It feels kind of good, but I want to increase my sex DRIVE, not just get turned on once I start masturbating: I want to get aroused without having to start the sex first, you understand?

Sorry, got in a bit of a tangent there. Anyway, that's my answer to the question.

I have zero, well almost zero sex drive. Porn does help for me. But I can take it or leave it. Sex really doesn't matter that much, The act it's self is quite
'fruitless". Oral is another story. Alone or w/ someone. I have preformance anxietys to so I just don't care for sex of any type really.

Porn has been therapeutic for me. It has showed me sex is not necessacarily dirty and bad. It can be shared in love w/ some one you enjoy or love. After rape I didn't think sex was anything but bad. But porn, the right kinds, have showed me it is ok. That being alone w/ yourself is ok, that sex is a gift not an object to be controlled and had.

I have been employed in occupations that dealt with porn filtering so I was exposed to a lot of porn on occasion, and it was nothing but amusing to me. But maybe one day I will reconsider and take it seriously.

Porn is something I always enjoyed, even at a young age. I could never watch it with someone though. I have a weird sex drive where I am not aroused by sex unless its meaningless acts of just sex. I have never made love. Making love doesn't arouse me. I am one of those people who is a prude in real life but has a dark nasty side which included all my porn usage and internet "encounters". Like the saint and the sinner make the whole me.