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Dec 13, 2012 at 12:12 AM
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I am with Harley in that I think that this guy is too forward. Maybe I am hopelessly old-fashioned, but I have never been on the receiving end of that line of his, "You're gorgeous, naughty, filthy minded and I would love to **** you hard lol. I know I shouldn't because you have a boyfriend and I normally don't go for girls your age but there's something about you that's very attractive. Its been 10 months since I last had any fun, not because I'm short of offers because I'm not, I'm just choosy and picky and then next girl is gonna have to be something special. I think you could be it babe. This is bad"
I have only been told that I am gorgeous or attractive, but not the rest of it. And I kind of prefer it this way, even if it may appear ultra conservative. |
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Dec 13, 2012 at 08:26 PM
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The Submissive, I have thought more about it since yesterday and I do not particularly like that he is so forward. It would be too much for me. I do see it as flattering, don't get me wrong, but still - too much.
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Dec 15, 2012 at 06:06 PM
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I talk to a lot of guys. Mostly much older than me. I'm regularly spoken to that way so I guess I don't even notice that. I guess it does seem that way.
I like guys speaking to me that way... I like that I get offers every day by guys I'd never accept but for once it makes me feel wanted by someone. My family don't want me around, my friends have new friends at university so don't need me... My boyfriend doesn't ever want to be intimate with me. I didn't mean to think that way about this guy, he was just one of the many admirers I needed to make me feel okay about myself. He constantly wants me to come out for a drink or anything and I guess I don't trust myself, I don't want to be that person, I love my boyfriend. Part of me just keeps thinking about how trapped I feel in this relationship, and thinking what it's.. I feel like I need freedom and just let go, because my guy just suffocates me sometimes. |
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Dec 15, 2012 at 10:06 PM
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Sounds like you are dealing with some self esteem issues??? ... No one can make you feel Okay about yourself ...But YOU. I understand you enjoy being submissive.. but being submissive does not mean you depend on other to make you feel okay about yourself.
If your current relationship is lacking .. you have a few choices ... Stay in it and accept it as is.... Talk to him, communicate your wants needs and desires... Or end the relationship if you and him can't agree on important things.. You are so very young.... Be safe 
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Dec 15, 2012 at 11:26 PM
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I agree with Morethingswrong: you are way too young to make those kinds of comproises. Bf does not want to be intimate with you? Move on. There is no point. People will not change - they will stay the way they are. If you do not like the way they are, you need new/different people. It is great that you have choices - use them wisely.
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Dec 15, 2012 at 11:36 PM
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Amen on that. Choose wisely my dear. Marriage is forever and divorce is expensive. Take your time. Find you then find Mr.Right. If he ain't right find the one that is.
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